Originally Posted by
telethiese
I did read her dream journal. What I'm saying (which she seemed to have misinterpreted) is that the hate you feel for this girl is the cause and the resolution to this entire situation. The hate is the channel that the girl moves through and the hate is the reason her mind allows the connection to be made - so that she can react to it, exacerbating the issue further. This is how it works in the mind-field, like attracts like. From my perspective this is an obvious emotional blockage caused by the mutual hatred of both of the girls. That's why I said she should resolve this situation peacefully.
The manifestations that psychic happenings take are still dependent on the personal self and are further censored, or even manipulated by the impersonal self. That doesn't mean they're not happening or are somehow 'less real', it means that they can be resolved through tying up loose ends and letting go. Acknowledging something as an emanation of your higher aspects accomplishes two thing; it undermines any power it may have over you, and seals the connection between the individual selves. Even if there is still leakage, your detachment will affect her mind moreso because you are acting from a position 'farther away' from the event horizon and 'closer to' the source.
Do you meditate, hathor? Unresolved feelings manifest themselves in reality, sooner or later. Particularly powerful feelings can become like 'demons'. When you cultivate psychic abilities, you must also cultivate detachment from psychic abilities, because there are many hidden trap-doors inside of our minds.. from which others can manipulate us.
In order to seal them up, first you need a sort of net, a sort of dreamcatcher-like term which has power, like god, buddha-nature, higher self, whatever. Something that is indeed more powerful, like you said. Then you weave it through all your experience and see it everywhere so that you can cultivate the impersonal perspective. Associate it with light, mercy, loving-kindness, whatever qualities you'd like. See through it's eyes.
Develop an intimate relationship with this dreamcatcher, allow it to work through you. I like to call it cultivating the godhead, because though it may seem that you are relying on an outside source, in reality you are developing your own godhood. This is a safety mechanism for psychic openness.