Talking to the dead

[Arthurium]

I've been dating a girl now for awhile, and she slept in my bed last night. I woke in the middle of the night and came back to bed. I laid down for a bit, and I felt a HUGE essence coming off of her. I looked at her and she was sleeping. So I closed my eyes and I could still see her glowing white next to me. I decided to go with it, and 30 seconds later she made an interesting sound and moved. Instantly it went away. Next, I felt a spirit in the room and I really bad one. I waited, and it went away. I told her this whole thing is the morning and she said "to be honest with you, I often talk to the dead while I am sleeping. They come to me almost every night." Then she went on to tell me this has happened since she went to a submarine, and a dead spirit that was in the submarine attached to her. She says while she was in there it actually appeared to her. Apparently around town it was known that boat was haunted. This REALLY freaked me out. I'm kinda scared to let her stay over now.

[JET73L]

That's pretty cool. I would just think of it as another reason to let her stay over, considering nothing's tried to cause any harm so far. It might actually to better to ask her more about this sort of thing, assuming she's okay with talking about it in-depth, rather than just trying to drop the subject.

[Shark Rider]

WOW, that's interesting. On your place, I would try to communicate with the spirit or I don't know...I would be just curious.

[juroara]

its normally not a good sign when someone tells you a spirit has attached to them..lol...ghosts getting in the way of relationships? what has this world come to?

[australianguy]

i don't think it's something to freak out about, I think it's pretty cool! if it's been something she's been dealing with for a while and she's okay with it, then I don't think it'll do any harm if she sleeps over. I think it would be a really cool experience.

[13redfan]

That's awesome! How many other people do you know that regularly talk to the dead? Man....I'd be dead curious (excuse the pun ) and try to find out more. Why don't you ask her to ask them some questions? Like, do they know they're dead, what happened when they died, is it the same for everyone, do they know things they couldn't possibly know (like can they tell stuff telepathetically?) unless they were ghostly beasties... And then, when you've asked her - post the answers up here! We're all dying (I know, I know, sorry ) to find out!

[Camps]

its normally not a good sign when someone tells you a spirit has attached to them..lol... I would say this same thing. The questio would be, how and Why did the ghost attached to her.... Witch is theire connection. They might have some kind of connection that keeps this attached. Well, it can be scary, but I would also say it is pretty interesting and a nice oportunity to understand a little more from this other world...

[saxonharp]

Don't worry. It doesn't "rub off." Communicating with the Dead is her Path. Maybe it's yours too, maybe it's not. But being in her presence - even while she's doing it - will not make you any more or less likely to experience the same thing. That being said, it's your choice to develop that skill or not. Being around her and listening to her stories and what she's experienced may open your mind to the possibility more. Once you accept the possibility and then understand that this is something anyone can do if they choose and practice a little (or a lot depending on your particular sensitivity) then you may begin to have similar experiences. Still, it's always your choice. Regardless of whether or not you choose that particular Path, you still need to get rid of your Fear. It serves no one, especially not you. And if there are negative entities around and with this girl, then your Fear and negative emotions only gives them more strength and power.