Want to contact someone on the other side

[lilyborg]

Can someone please help me? My mom passed away on May 10. I am grieving for her so much and I have asked for a sign but I have not recieved anything at all from her that I recognize. I am normally sensitive to stuff like that but there has been nothing from her. I realize that time probably passes much more quickly for me than for her but I want to talk to her. I am a lucid dreamer and have been for a while and a long time ago I was contacted by my grandmother shortly after she passed. But I do not know how to initiate that type of contact. Can someone please help me and tell what I need to do? I would truely appreciate any help that I could get. Thanks so much.

[Cn]

Can someone please help me? My mom passed away on May 10. I am grieving for her so much and I have asked for a sign but I have not recieved anything at all from her that I recognize. I am normally sensitive to stuff like that but there has been nothing from her. I realize that time probably passes much more quickly for me than for her but I want to talk to her. I am a lucid dreamer and have been for a while and a long time ago I was contacted by my grandmother shortly after she passed. But I do not know how to initiate that type of contact. Can someone please help me and tell what I need to do? I would truely appreciate any help that I could get. Thanks so much. Sorry for your loss. I think one of the reasons could be because your mom didn't want to scare you, so she tried to stay away. I'm probably not much of a help but I have a really good story that happened to me when my grandmother passed away. I don't remember the exact date, but for this, I'll use 10/8/xx. It was 10/8/07 when me, my brother, my mother, and my grandfather, were all at his house because my mom wanted to pick up a table that she really liked of my grandmothers' (her mothers). We went to pick up the table and we noticed something taped to the under side of the table. It was a note. The note said "When the times comes, this is for Debby" (my mother is Debby). We were all puzzled when my mom realized she had mentioned she wanted this table when my grandmother passed away. The note was signed "- Del" (my grandmother), 10/8/01. The exact date, 7 years before. Coincidence? Who knows. I think it was a message.

[juroara]

I have read a few things once or twice on how to contact someone who has passed away. im no expert, but heres what ive read. the biggest thing is to be open minded. let go of any idea you have of how this contact must take place. some contacts are visual, some are auditory, some are smell, tactile, mental. don't hold onto some idea of how it must happen, or even when. remain open. and let go of any idea of the condition your mother must be in. if you feel sorry for your mother, let that go. if you feel sad for your mother, let that go. if you feel sorry for yourself, let that go. if your mother is happy and well, she can not say this to you if you are only willing to hear otherwise. let go, of even, preconceived notions of the after life. well I don't know what yours are! but some people hold onto really old fashioned ideas of the life after, which stops them from being able to communicate with spirits. keep your thoughts on love, or even on a specific question if you try to have this event happen in a dream. remember to ask! spirits have free will. a loved one or not, there can be reasons why they may not want to appear to you right now. and in the future, maybe you will understand why it could not happen right now. there might be a better time and a better place for this sort of thing. http://www.adcrf.org/ good luck!

[Shark Rider]

Hi, I'm sorry for your loss. I don't have a long explanation. It's actually simple but not everyone likes it. It's meditation. Try meditating and concentrate on your goal. It works for me lot of times so you may be able to do it too. Good luck

[Enigmik]

I had an amazing LD of my grandparents shortly after they died. I got to say the good bye I never got. However, I tend to doubt it was actually my grandparents but still It was an amazingly healing experience. Why not just try to summon her while lucid or make yourself dream of her durning the night? I am sorry you are hurting and I hope you are able to find some comfort. Best of luck to you.

[DeliriousDonkey]

I have a friend who's a lucid dreamer and also does some medium stuff. She told me a ways(not related to lucidity: Imagine a light coming out of your body, building up and becoming stronger. As it gains strength, you will start seing shadows. These shadows will become more and more apperant. After a while they'll be regular people. Ask them if they can find your mum. I've tried it.. didn't work for me, but I have problems imagining images. I can conjure feelings and such, but never when I meditate do I see an image. She warned me, though. There are evil spirits as well as good ones. They can't harm you, they're just annoying. She didsn't do it much anymore, and wanted me to sit with her as she did it, so I assume she's scared. I never did get the chance to sit with her though. Another way she told me about involved writing, and try to make a spirit guide your hand. Have fun... I have no idea whether such things are actually possible, but if they aren't, you might successfully hypnotize yourself into seing her, and that might ease your mind.