Thread: What can u do to increase errotic dreams?

I'm afraid I don't know.

leo you are a moron.

also, u cant have sex with the hotter, previous version of brittaney spears in real life can u? no. but ofcoarse why would leo want that? give it up man

Can somebody please state all the reasons why lucid sex dreams wake the dreamer up?
This is quite interesting.

Originally posted by nightowl

This is HIS dreams, not yours. If he wants to have sex in his dreams, then let him.

BTW: Scwigglie! you're back! woohooo...we were wondering where you went.

I'm sorry, but I was under the impression that this was a discussion forum.

Originally posted by jay dawg
leo you are a moron.

Why is it that the only person on this Page that can think in complete paragraphs is a 'moron' but those who sit in judgment with opinions that they haven't the intellect to express consider themselves so superior to me? It must be one of those counter-intuitive things, or perhaps a spiritual paradox, that the foolish are actually wise, or that the most knowledge resides with the ignorant, or whatever Zen or Taoist formula of nonsense may apply. But my own suspicions would lean the other way and I would suppose that it is the people who can't quite comprehend what I am saying that most call me a 'moron'.

alfred potter what kind of sick twisted av is that GOD! man if theres one person whos banking on there not being a hell it is u lol


leo leo leo. the point is try to discuss erotic dreams w/o putting people down in the process.

well its the only small image that'll fit for the av and it represents what i believe in.

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now can someone answer my previous post

You can do things in a LD that you could never do in life with sex, such as fufill extreme fetishes that would either be illegal or impossible to do in real life

Originally posted by deeptrance
You can do things in a LD that you could never do in life with sex, such as fufill extreme fetishes that would either be illegal or impossible to do in real life

Hehe you could, but honestly who would?

Officially, anybody still arguing about the social lives of those who want erotic dreams has WAY WAY TOO MUCH TIME ON THEIR HANDS.

Look, everybody wants erotic dreams, who wouldn't? We're all humans, we all have sex drives. It just depends on the logic of the person thats insecurity depends on what others do. If you don't want to have erotic dreams, don't, whatever floats your boat. But don't go Dr. Phil on peoples' ass just because you feel that your false sense of maturity puts you "above" others.

I'm too tired to read through this whole thread, I've gone through the first and most of the second pages. Here's my spill.

I'm with Leo on this one. He's got an opinion, and the right to share it. The right to be opinionated, if he so wishes. I have the same right. If you don't like it, shove it. That's what life's like, get used to it. Whatever you may think of Leo's opinions, you have to admit that he has a great mind, and he's quite capable of thinking for himself. Leo, I just want you to know that even though I don't agree with you on most things, you have my respect.

If you want sex dreams, good for you, but I've gotta tell you--there's no point. There's much more entertaining things to do in an LD, and much more that'd be memorable later on. I've had a few sex dreams, most unintentional, but a few lucid, and I've gotta say, they just aren't worth the time. Go fly, rule the world, fish, surf, or in general DO SOMETHING OTHER THAN SOME ONE. Get a life, move on. And most importantly, GROW UP. In dreams and on forums.

-Tsen

It's not that easy to think about something all the way up till you fall asleep. Plus that won't necessarily mean it'll become your concern and thus be relayed into a dream.

Now reading something extensively before falling asleep or more so being concerned with a concept throughout the day - those from my experience and in my research are good ways of relaying something into a dream.

When ever I have an erotic dream they always end before I actually have sex. It's been like that my whole 22 years.....I am not a virgin....what gives?

Ack, Have you all forgotten about your lustful preteen years. Wet-Dreams are caused by a build up of hormones in the male body and when the amount of hormones reaches a certain level they are discharged.

So the most natural way to have a sex dream is to not masturbate.

And to Leo

You have your opinion as we all do but try not to put others down when you state it. It makes you seem like you are some type of self riotous(?) fool when you do (which we all here at DV know your not).



And just out of curiosity, do females have wet dreams?

Okay I'm new but I've had a lot of lucid sex dreams and they only manage to wake me up like 45% of the time and the dream keeps going on to the next "day" or further before I do wake up. Also to the "drunken orgy" comment, I wont ever get drunk! out of fear of jail time for murder, and unless I know everyone and their history's I wont join an orgy out of fear of getting something I don't want!

So lucid sex, orgy or not, is the way I'll go until I find someone (or one's) who makes me throw out my rules on premarital(?) sex.

Oh and it only gets boring if you're imaganation can't keep up. IME

I experimented with women perfume under my nose a few times just before sleeping.
Also with aftershave and some other very sensual perfumes.
I dreamed then several times i was in a harem having fun with woman.

But it must be a strong and sensual scent!

I talked to someone who told me you can even control which person you dream about if that person has a unique smell to you, just spray your pillow with the target's perfume. If it's not a sensual scent it will at least help you dream about the person.

If you can't LD, thinking about a person for a long time before falling asleep can help you see them in your dream, but this has never led to a sexual encounter for me, just normal interactions with the person.

if you really want sexual dreams take a break from "coping." after a week or so, sex is about all I dream about. I don't really recommend it though, it's not worth not coping.

alfredpotter: Consider the different types of dreams and how intense they are. Lucids are more intense than vivid dreams, which are more intense than normal dreams. Like irishcream said, intense emotions can cause the dream to stop. The emotions become more intense in lucid dreams, and have a greater potential to stop a dream.

I'm sort of divided between the rest of the opinions. I do think there is at least one benefit to having intimate relations in dreams. No, this does not have vaginal sex in lucid dreams. Things are amplified in dreams compared to "real life". This means things are more intense when you dream.

Leaning back to Fetish's hormone statement, I think you can accumulate the hormones much faster while you are dreaming. I don't agree that once you hit your level you are done. If you masturbate regularly, your level will stay the same. But if you hold it in, I think you can increase your tolerance. Similar to alcohol...the more alcohol in your body, the more you learn to tolerate. When you orgasm, you actually release all these hormones. To build up more, don't release.

Also an idea I have is that masturbation accumulates these hormones. So do other sexual or intimite activities. If you want to increase your tolerance, i.e. last longer and have more powerful orgasms, dreaming is the fastest way I know how to do it.

So, where i'm headed with all this is that dreaming and erotic activities can charge people up and get them to be more tolerant. Again, this is not saying have penetrative sex in lucid dreams. I think it's better to be non-lucid so you are not demeaning the higher mind. Ask for it, and you will receive it. Also, I tend to give oral or kiss women. Hugging, petting that is good too, but I do not get in the position where I can get excited and lose it. Any act with the adult intentions is fine if you aren't receiving.

My strategy is to have one play with themself at night, before they go to sleep. Don't cross the point of no return, don't get too worked up not to fall asleep. There's a happy medium. Have those intimate thoughts before going to bed. Give your subconcious mind a notice that's what you want, and it will accomidate you. Also having sexual thoughts, daydreams and fantasies will help too. Stimulate yourself on every level, physically, mentally, emotionally, etc...

Leo, do you have the least bit of jealousy when you are "discussing" with people what sexual dreams are all about? I know you would insist you don't mean to insult them or be condenscending, but their interpretation is that you are doing such a thing. Besides, it's not hard to see how defensive you get to certain comments by insulting some of their characteristics or style of verbal projection, though so subtly and "diplomatically."

It's true that there are plenty of people addressing as well as requesting tips on sexual dreams, but that's only because almost every aspiring lucid dreamer has at some points thought of exploiting this window of oppurtunity for sex. They will find out for themselves, not by hearsay, whether or not it is a good use for their time.

Their rationalizations may sicken you, but you are smart enough to see that you are not creating any positive feedback with these people, and if anything, the only thing you are gaining is the personal conviction that you are right. They only seem to stiffin their points on the other hand.

In my experience, engaging and holding on to either side of the argument is entirely stressful, this board is gradually making people feel as if they're between a rock and a hard place, with all the moral discussions and whatnot flying around.

Some of us people may have "faith" in total dream control, as well as you have faith, no wait, "knowledge" that there is no such thing. But given that you're clearly over 50 years old and had more time to have had fun than most of us here on the board, we won't hesitate to consider your opinion, either.

But I already know there is so much more worth doing in dreams than sex, I've tried, and already said before the effort can be disappointing if it's not easy to attain, because our calm demeanor is usually hard to sustain in such a scenario. But the bottom line is, it's productive to do things we haven't done before or things we can't do in real life in dreams, and it's not necessary to keep drawing lines until we back ourselves into a corner.

Why not just try it once? That way you can tell non-believers they can have sex in a lucid dream and they'll be all over it. Then, hopefully with this forum they'll learn there are cooler things to do while dreaming.

is it possible to masterbate in your dreams?

Originally posted by jungjedi
is it possible to masterbate in your dreams?

Why...
Oh why

I was asking myself that same question. Let's ask:

JungJedi,

I suppose it probably is. But why would you when that's a solo activity you can do at (presumably) most any time? There are a LOT more compelling things to spend your dream time on, right?

So why the inquiry? Just curiosity?

To see if he can shoot 100 ft in the air...jp

No, I don't think it's because he's curious. He probably has a life-and-death situation that rests on answering this very question.