Summery of my problems and things I am doing...

[jayraymo]

Hey in the last few weeks I have started have heaps of LDs and it has been great. But I can't seem to control the world around me and sometimes the scene randomly changes and everything seems a bit fuzzy. Also I have been able to fly but only for a few seconds and not very high up. I have also been telling DCs that I am dreaming and showing them RCs and it helps me in the dream too . Please reply. ~jayraymo

[EthicalEye]

Hey, try this. Stare something.. like floors, doors, furniture, etc. that you want to change. this makes it more clearer. then think you want it to change...or ask in your dream that you need something...like a Sex Partner like most LDmers Do.

[Sanquis]

I tend to find if you believe things are going to go wrong; they do. Are you sure you're confident in what you're trying to manipulate?

[dreamerJon23]

Sounds, like you should walk in flow with the dream more, anything that feels natural in control is easier

[jayraymo]

Yeah half the time I have hardly any idea of what I am actually doing in the dream though my control is getting better... slowly

[dreamerJon23]

center your thoughts on a waterfall, jkjk

[rockinred]

Dreams are weird. It's less of an 'I want' and more of an 'I think'. If you think your cell phone won't work then it probably won't. If you think you can't fly then you won't be able too. However if you truly believe that you have complete control of the world around you then you will. That's why flying is so hard! You get a foot off the ground and your brain tells you what you're doing isn't possible so you fall. Rub your hands together to strengthen the dream when you feel it falling apart. Think to yourself that this is YOUR dream and that YOU have complete control and really try to believe it (shouldn't be too hard since it's the truth) and you'll probably find that your dream is a lot more stable.