Tolin, I think you are just becoming acclimated to the dream world. Though it seems hard to adjust at first, the more you LD, the more you become acclimated to it and how to function in it. All I can tell you is "Practice makes perfect.". Keep trying, set your intent well (as in tell yourself you will control LD no matter what) and you will get it right eventually. Have patience, and have fun!