Finding Your Dreamguide (part 2, Tutorial)

[spiritofthewolf]

Hey folks? How is everyone doing? I am just doing fine. Lots of you know that I made a tutorial about Finding Your Dreamguide. This is the second tutorial that i am making to go along with it, but this time, it will deal with after you have found your Dreamguide, and what to do when you are in its presence.. If you havent read my first tutorial here is the link Finding Your Dreamguide be sure you check that out before you read this. Anyways before I began, I'd like to say thank you all for posting to my first Tutorial, and i am glad i have inspired some to go on their own personal journey to find their DG.. Let me remind you, if you have any comments, questions or concerns, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE, feel free to PM on this website, i will answer any and all questions.. I was reading through some of the replies people left me asking questions and If u would like me to answer them--with my own opinion, please feel free to PM me. Ok, enough babbling..On to the real deal.. So you found your dreamguide, now you must be wondering..hmm wolf, what the heck do i do now? STEP 1: Dreamguide Appearence This is a very important part..Simply because it will help you figure out what exactly you can do with your DreamGuide...Luckily, for me, my DG is a female about my age, very beautiful brown wavy hair and brown eyes......She has been in about 4 of my Lucid Dreams out of the 90 that i have had in about 15 months...I already know deep inside me that I love her to death, she honestly is nothing like any girl i have met on earth...We havent done much, and I was even asked the question, would i ever have sex with my DG? The answer is simply no i would not.. I have too much respect for my DreamGuide to use her in such a way.. We already established the fact that we do love eachother, but its a love soo deep, that its better then sex...I know weird right.. But anyways..IF your DG happens to be a human, I'd suggest getting to know your DG..Ask him/her questions...example: What do you have to offer for me?...I dont really know much about my DG yet, because everytime we become face to face I am just so blown away by her standing next to me.. I wake up and i lay in bed and I literally feel like little electrical waves of energy are flowing througn my body--all the hair on my neck and arms stand up on end..... But yes Appearence is the most important thing when deciding what to do with your DreamGuide... STEP 2: Ok Now What?? Ok you figured out the appearence of your DG..pat yourself on the back, drink some milk and cookies--you deserve it ...But during your treat of milk and cookies...you stop in the middle of chewing and ask yourself...Well, what the heck do i do now? Well folks, I'd be glad to help you in that aspect of your troubles...In My Opinion, I believe that no matter what your DG may look like, make the best out of it...If you can communicate with your DG, like i said above, ask questions..The fun part would be to ask your DG questions about yourself, that you know-to see if your DG gets it right...Because some say that your DG knows more about you, then you do yourself--that is why its there to GUIDE YOU..hmmm, amazing how life and dreams work together isnt it.... Another great thing ( for all you single peepz out there) is to build a relationship with your DG--I prefer a non sexual relationship with mine--even though I am single at the moment--Just because I feel my DG is there for a better reason then sex....I feel my DG is like on a higher level of Understanding what's going on around me--so therefore, it might be a good idea that i LISTEN! In the end, have fun with your DG...make a good relationship with your DG...when you feel your dream slippin away, say something worth while that they will remember you by--even though they wont forget you--or ask your DG for some wisdom before you wake up to go downstairs for more milk and cookies---they might tell you to use a napkin to get the chocolate off your face---you never know.. That brings me to my next step- no no no--not the cookies---the part where i said LISTEN.. STEP 3:Listening To Your Dreamguide This is a very good step.. Your Dreamguide--I believe--and has been said--that Dreamguide's know more about you then you know yourself..So why wouldn't you listen to someone who knows more about you, that can help you with everday life events...Having a troubled relationship? Ask your DG what would be the best option for you and your spouse....I have to warn you, your Dreamguide may give you an answer you may not want to hear..Like perhaps, ending the relationship...But you must understand that, even though you dont like that thought or idea...It's probably the best thing for you to do, so your emotions and mental state can get better.. All in all, Listen to the wisdom that your DG has to offer...You may become enlightened by the fact of what your DG knows... For those who have yet to read my first TUTORIAL on this subject matter *clears throat*Here you go I had mentioned when i first met my DG while sitting at a restaraunt--I had said to her.. You know how long I've been looking for you....She replied back, I tried contacting you last fall--which was in FALL of 2005 because we have yet to have FALL 2007...So after that dream, i had woken up and went back into my old Dream Journals, and went to the months where fall fell on..And i had found a dream that made me certain it was her...and i believe it was her because the girl in that dream whispered in my ear... "I already know who you are, I just dont want them to know, that I know you...." Now if you go back and read the part where she said I tried contacting you last fall...If i had woken up from that dream, and not even bothered to pay attention to what the heck she was telling me, I would have never of looked back in my dream journals and found that dream...She basically told me she was trying to get a hold of me, but guess what... I WASN'T LISTENING!!!!! she FLAT OUT told me--I ALREADY KNOW WHO YOU ARE----but was i paying attention------NO! lol.. So you see how important paying attention to what your Dreamguide says...what your Dreamguide DOES is equally important...If your Dreamguide helps other DC's it should be on your behalf to return to favor to other DC's, for your DG will respect you for it.... STEP 4:Respecting Your Dreamguide This............This ladies and gentlmen, is the # 1 most important step having to do with your dreamguide.....RESPECT......DO NOT TAKE...YOUR DREAMGUIDE...FOR GRANET!! I'd put the text bigger on that part but i think you get the picture.....Now im not saying dont joke around, laugh, and have fun...That is good stuff..Heck, go ahead and play hide and seek, because in a sense your DG is already playing that with you...your DG is out there somewhere, HIDING, maybe even right infront of your face, but you must be the one to notice, and FIND them...and once you do...you should respect them...because they have so much knowledge and advice to offer to you..But you must be the one to ask for it...Do not treat your DG like you would a person that you disliked or held a grudge over..Because to be quiet honest with you, if you have that mindset during TUTORIAL 1 of mine...you may never find your Dreamguide..consider yourself lucky if you find your DG--with the mindset of respecting it--your DG must have the world of Love for you, to come inside your Dream's to try and help you, and GUIDE you even though THEY KNOW that all you have instore for them is disrespect...in the case of that, dont pat yourself on the back, because you didnt find your Dreamguide..Your Dreamguide found you...to help you change your negative ways.... That is why respect is important...If you want your DG to give you answers about yourself or whatever it maybe, and you have some piss poor attitude, you can forget about it...Enless...your DG see's hope for you..even then you maybe at loss...because you'd be soo stuck inside your negative outlook you wouldn't beable to see the hope your DG has for you... You remember to golden rule...Treat everyone the way you want to be treated...same goes for your DG...that old washed up saying from so many years, wasnt made for our health...It was made, because it makes sense...You only get in return, what you put in....RESPECT with your DG can go both ways...its your choice...and your DG understands that...Your DG is there to help you...Take it for what its worth.....and let them guide you..... Another great thing to do to show respect toward your DG, is to thank them...Thank them for being there for you...I wouldn't be suprised if some of them told you...Oh, its nothing...This is what I am here for...For you.....To guide you through your trial's and tribulations...anything you need help with...dont be afraid to ask... STEP 5Be Thankful.... The last step is quite simple and goes along with the previous step...All in all, just be thankful that you have found your Dreamguide and that you have been able to experience some great times with it...Because its not everyday that you wake up inside your dream standing next to someone who knows more about you then you can even imagine...so please, be thankful and be happy..That even though life can sometimes feel like shit..We have our dreams to look foward to..And a DreamGuide to reach out to when we are troubled, or sad, or confused..Whatever it is that we feel, our questions that we have can be answered by our Dreamguide...If we LISTEN to, RESPECT and THANK them.........For guiding us to life's answers, that we all, truly seek....... NOTE: thank you for reading..any questions comments or concerns....PM me...thank you...

[EVIL JOE]

Well done. That was a very good and informative tutorial. I hope I can have another lucid dream (with more awareness, hopefully) so I can talk to my dreamguide.

[bushi]

Thanks. A good read. Still need to be able to become lucid.

[Tolin]

thanks for the knowledge. will do, next time i ld. honestly though, im not sure if its healthy to have a deep love for your dreamguide. couldnt it interfere with the rest of your life?

[spiritofthewolf]

the love i have for my DG does not interfere with real life..because the love i have inside my dreams, takes after the love of everyday life.

[Eminence~]

Deep love for DC's can suck sometimes. But other times it's worth it. Soooo worth it.

[Blueskied]

Does a guide reappear in dreams once you have found him/her?

[EVIL JOE]

He/she will reappear if you want/expect him or her to be there. Though, they may not look like they did before.

[deathly_hallow]

Fantastic post, just fix up some typos Anyway, I cannot wait to meet my DG! This dreamguide thing is very interesting. Who are they and where do they come from? Are they like spiritual beings in heaven, do they only exist in your subconscious and have no other life? Very interesting, maybe we should do a research on DG's in the research threads.

[blade5x]

I think it's time for me to find mine. About 60 lucids induced, and my dream control still sucks, it's getting very annoying now, to the point where it's lowering my motivation to attempt WBTBs.

[becomingagodo]

If you kill your dream guide does the person reappear. Also the only reacurring character that gives me advice is Hannibal lecter is he my dream guide. He was giving me advice on how i should build a memory palace, art, philosophy and physics. Does this make him my dream guide.

[Keeper]

what type of questions have you asked your DG?

[becomingagodo]

what type of questions have you asked your DG?[/b] If that was directed at me have you even read the books. That would anwser your question.

[Keeper]

no it wasn't, but I do know what type of person Hannable was. I also know why he became the way he did

[Indecent Exposure]

The infamous dreamviews skeptic beelives in dream guides faints Imran

[BohmaN]

The infamous dreamviews skeptic beelives in dream guides faints Imran[/b] word ^^,

[becomingagodo]

The infamous dreamviews skeptic beelives in dream guides faints Imran[/b] The world going to end. no it wasn't, but I do know what type of person Hannable was. I also know why he became the way he did[/b] Techinquickly speaking if the person was truly your dream guide they wouldnt need to be told the question or a problem they should know before hand. Also give you good advice.

[spiritofthewolf]

my DG anna has always looked the same...so idk if that means anything or not but i had DC's claiming to be my DG but i knew they were fake and later found my real one.

[becomingagodo]

I thought dream guide meant a part of your subconsious. Now i am hearing that it something else which should belong in beyound dreaming. I dont believe about 100% of the things in beyound dreaming so if you believe in special spirtual connection crap i have no dream guide.

[Keeper]

dont dismise the Spirit out of hand

[becomingagodo]

dont dismise the Spirit out of hand[/b] I got rid off fairy tales in primary school.

[Eminence~]

I got rid off fairy tales in primary school. [/b] Then at least have the decency to respect other people's beliefs. I don't believe in about 100% of the things in Beyond Dreaming either, but I'm not being an ass about it.

[becomingagodo]

Then at least have the decency to respect other people's beliefs. I don't believe in about 100% of the things in Beyond Dreaming either, but I'm not being an ass about it.[/b] Well you have to grow up. Plus respect for me is nothing i prefer intelligence or skeptisim. Common if somebody looks at this post and starts crying then the comment applys to them. I know rational people wouldnt look at this and get hurt so i stay by my comment.

[spiritofthewolf]

this topic wasnt made for lil kids to rant and rave and cry about where tutorials about your DREAMS and dreamguides should be posted..so please..stop wasting your time PMing telling me where to post my topics... thank you

[spiritofthewolf]

just to clear some things up...dreamship had talked about SPIRIT babble..Well if you wanna say that DG's are something SPIRITUAL other then DREAMS...spiritual guides is just another name for Dream guides...so therefore, eitherway you look at it, it all still has something to do with your dreams... and I found this paragraph off off a website just a few mins ago I've had the best success with dreams, though this may be in part thanks to experimentation with lucid dreaming in the past. If you want to try using dreams as your medium, you might want to consider burning some scented candles or oils in the bedroom before turning in for the night (lavender and lilac are great for helping you to open up psychically). Clear your mind of the day's "chatter" (take several deep breaths, or some meditation techniques can be found here). Repeat the following statement: "I am open to communication with my spirit guides, and would like them to come to me in my dreams. I will remember these dreams in the morning." Start a dream journal, and first thing when you wake up, record anything you can remember. Don't get discouraged - it may be a week or two before communication is established.[/b] sounds like alot of stuff that people use to try to induce Lucid Dreams, but instead he is trying to induce a dream where he can talk with his DG (or spiritual guide).... Oh and look, how strange, he even tells you to write down your dreams so you remember them....How odd is that...This guy would fit right into DV here.. Just so u dont think i ripped that quote off of the forum somewhere.. Here is the link where i found it oh and BTW he even talks about doing WILD's to meet your Spirit/dream guide Close your eyes Take several deep, relaxing breaths, clearing your mind of extraneous thoughts Once you've reached a relaxed state, imagine a natural setting that is calming and comforting to you: an ocean beach, a meadow in summer, a forest clearing in the rain, a flower garden, a grassy hillside Imagine a bench in the middle of your area (I like to envision a wrought-iron park bench with aged wooden slats, but picture whatever is comfortable to you) Approach the bench and sit down Send a thought out that you would like to meet your spirit guide Wait for the guide to approach, and ask him or her to be seated Ask his or her name, and what he or she is here to teach you If this is your first attempt, keep this meeting brief, thank your guide for coming, and slowly bring your consciousness back to the room in which you're seated[/b] ....man, sooo amazing how my tutorials and this guy's topic links together..... Spirit/Dream Guides hope that clears things up and i stop getting annoying pm's by kids... thanks