First problem that I have is I rarely have dreams.
(we all have about 4 dreams a night) --- I just don't remember it.

I do have short dreams during a nap. (I know how this works)

The thing is when I go to bed at night, I want to have a dream. A dream that I want, and that I can control

I think about the dream and fall asleep but nothing happens.

(It's not a wetdream)

any suggestions?