Can anyone help me understand my dream please

**Gracie** · 12-23-2010 01:13 PM

Hi im new here and was really wondering if anyone can help me with understanding my dream from last night.Well here it is.....

my grandad has been trying to ring my mum to speak to her after a few attemps he manages to speak to her and tells her we (all the family) have to go to a place, The place has a big stone with some sort of writting or engraving on it (like a tombstone) with a big old wooden chair infront of it, theres a man in a black suit there he tells us my grandad is sat in the chair and he can see him.We can all go and speak to him some of his friends are there too.My grandad tells me we all need to enjoy ourselves. Then he has to go but just before he says we can always talk to him whenever we need to and that he will be in that chair all we need to do is go back there the man in the suit says the same.Then i woke up and fell back to sleep a few mins later only for the same big stone and chair to be there again! Ive never seen the place before and dont know where it is but my grandad has said we have to go there if we ever need him.The chair is like the one he used to sit in when he was alive but only bigger and there are no big stones at my nanas house.Ive spoken to my mum this morning and she said she had a funny phone call at 8am this morning she answered but nobody was there then i told her my dream.I have a feeling im supposed to find the place or he needs me to do something ive had lots of dreams where hes spoken to me since he passed away with cancer earlier this year but can never remember what hes said to me but this dream is stuck in my head i remember everything.Can anyone please help me understand it?
Sorry for the long post
Thanks

**Facepaintingfun** · 01-17-2011 06:22 PM

Is your Mum highly upset about his passing? It sounds like he's giving a message that you all need to enjoy yourself and not worry about him. That he's been trying to get this message to your Mum. Maybe he couldn't get through to her, so he's giving you this message in a dream that he knows you'll share with her and it will get through. He's letting you know that he has to go now (pass on), but that he will always be there if you need him. If you speak to him, he will hear and know it I think is his message maybe.

**atkins513** · 01-21-2011 07:22 AM

facepaintingfun, that is a very good interpretation!

**Facepaintingfun** · 01-21-2011 02:47 PM

Thanks Atkins! Re-reading this gave me another idea. Since she fell back asleep and saw the stone and chair again, it makes me believe that the "place" where she can always go and see and talk to him anytime she wants is in her dream world... not a physical place she should search for, but always there in her dream world.