Hello,

I've currently been having multiple dreams about the same person within the last few months. I'll provide a little background which I think may be helpful.

I'm a female, 20 years old, single (always have been). I recently joined a dance studio in the fall, and my instructor/partner (he's not much older than me) and I immediately had great dance chemistry and an different, yet beneficial opposition in our personalities (I'm a strict perfectionist and very tough on myself, and emotional, while he's a hard worker whose slightly more laid back and very positive and composed). I feel differently about him than I ever have about a person in my life, but I'm very confused over what that feeling is (I can go into more detail about that if needed). We're not allowed to have any contact (friendly or romantic) outside of the studio (not that he would be interested anyway), so I've been trying to quietly figure out my feelings and suppress them for the sake of myself getting hurt if I ever discover what exactly I feel. The immense stress of this is also coupled with the fact that I can't take lessons with him anymore because of money issues (I still see him around the studio, as I come in for group classes).

I can remember four dreams I've had within the past couple of months involving him. I'll try to provide as many details as I can.


#1:

I remember being at a fancy place, somewhat like a country club. I can't recall the faces I saw, but while dreaming, I associated them with the dance studio. I remember stepping on rocks in a flowing brook that had small creatures in it (sorry, I can't remember what exactly). Somehow, the dream eventually shifted to a large, dimly lit, lavish indoor location. I saw him walking in a similar direction as myself, so I started walking up a flight of stairs (they were rectangular with small landings in between). He was going in the same direction and was gaining on me (I don't think he was purposely following), so I picked up my speed. Eventually, when I decided I was far enough away, I sat on a landing (I believe my feet were hanging over the edge, and there was no railing) and waited for him. He eventually reached where I was and said something (can't remember what) that I responded to, but he kept walking up the next flight of stairs. The dream then shifted to a room with people I don't believe I knew. I was lying on a bed and there was another girl on it as well (I was facing the edge of the bed). Eventually, he came in and jumped in between us. I turned over and we got closer (I put my arm around him) and smiled. He kissed me several times on my face and neck and I sighed. We made eye contact and he said he would be back. I woke up around there. I felt incredibly content because of the last part, but also curious about the aspect of the stairs.


#2:

This one was slightly shorter. I again recall members of our dance studio being in the general area, but the room that I was in didn't have many people. It was naturally lit with a number of windows. Two people were speaking, and my back was turned from them. I believe the first person was one of the older ladies at our studio, and the other voice was his. While he was talking, he had his arms around me (my back facing his front) and across my chest, and I believe our fingers were intertwined (I think I was playing with his and observing them while he spoke). I recall myself looking forward and feeling apprehension over something as if I was waiting for something (no sense of discomfort or negativity in regards to his presence). The other person eventually left, and he put his head on top of mine. The situation is a little fuzzy here, but I distinctly remember him mentioning that he had talked with one of the other instructors (she's in charge of financial matters and contracts as well) about me. I think at that point I turned around because I knew he was going to say something important. He told me that she said it was okay for us to be together. He looked very excited and we held hands. I was so moved that I teared up and was speechless for a bit. I began sinking to my knees and mentioned the fact that I'd felt "this way" for a really long time. I can't remember what happened after that. I woke up feeling content again, but also puzzled by the idea of what exactly "together" and "this way" meant.


#3:

This one is the hardest to remember, and I recall it being fairly short. My mother and I were waiting in line somewhere to meet a famous person (I can't remember any details about this). I ended up walking away for a moment and maneuvering away (I know I crawled under a table at one point). The dream switched to a scene with me observing him (like I wasn't there). He was with a young girl (about my age or a few years older) and a woman who looked like her mother. I believe the girl had dark hair, but I don't believe I knew either her or her mother. Anyway, the mother was talking about her daughter, and he was sitting there looking half interested. I woke up feeling confused as to the purpose of the other females in the dream, as I didn't know them. I didn't feel the warmth that I did after the first two dreams.


4:

This is the last dream I can recall. It started off in a dimly lit house that I didn't recognize. Several people were walking around, and I recall my immediate family being there. It seemed like we were packing for a trip (sorry, I wish I could remember more from that part). Somehow, I ended up at a tropical location in a room filled with people. It was spacious, with several openings that allowed me to see the beach and the sun. The room had a lot of luscious, deep green plants as well. For some reason, my mind later thought DisneyWorld/Land (though I've never been there). I don't believe I ever looked down to see what I was wearing, but it felt like a gown of some sort from the delicate way in which I was walking. I felt like a lot of the room's focus was me. Eventually, he walked in wearing formal dress. I believe it was sparkly, and a cream color with red buttons lining two sides of the front. We ended up walking arm and arm out of the room (I can't recall our conversation, but we both seemed happy) into another very distinct room. This room had several structures (pillars, tables, rectangular lines) all made out of glass with clear water and fish inside. We were still talking, and I bent down to put my face on one of the glass tables. I remember seeing a tag for a fish (like they have in pet stores). I don't recall the name, but I know I saw a yellow one swimming (I know that it had a flat look to it). I read the name, and he mentioned something about it (I recall mentioning all the random facts he knows, which is true). Don't remember much after that. I woke up feeling generally relaxed, though I was very confused about the setting and the whole process of the dream.


Sorry for writing so much! This has never happened to me before, so I'm trying to get some different perspectives on it. I tried to include any details I remembered, but if there's anything else, just let me know!

Thanks!