Dreaming about a girl I have not seen for 5 years.

[Unsure]

So lately I have started having dreams about that girl that I have not seen for over 5 years. I know her from school, we used to be in the same class. I pretty much liked her back then. I tried to adapt to the new school, and I remember her saying to me, "stop acting like someone else and be yourself", she is the only one who cared enough, and saw right through me, only later on I realized this. I remember this moment very well, I remember how she looked like, who stood next to me or her, where we were standing, and what she or I were wearing. oddly enough. At that moment I have realized I do not need to be someone else for people to like me. ( I used to do stuff just to impress my new friends and make them like me. stuff that I normally wouldn't do. ) I had few rough years, I have left school and never seen her or thought about her up until this week. Well, that is a bit of background. My dream consisted of me going to a party with my friends and actually spotting her there. When I approached her, she didn't speak, she didn't say a word to me. only her friend ( that I remember from school ) spoke to me. She just ignored me and was kind of teasing, walking around and looking at me. I felt hopeless and unsure what is going on. The second dream I had was her picking me from my house. She had friends in the back of the car, and she was at the drivers seat. I sat at the back and we drove to her house to watch a movie. I did not like the movie, so we switched to the sequel and I went ahead and sat in the front. She sat on my lap, we kissed, and then I just laid down on the couch. That is all I remember. Odd dreams, not sure whats up with them. Have not seen her, or heard from her for 5 years, no idea why she came up now. I hope this is enough information for you guys to understand and interpret my dream, thanks!

[Unsure]

Any ideas?

[bornagain]

Hi. For the first dream, it's representative of being unable to reach out to that person now and truly tell them how you do feel or have felt about them and although you have a lot to say, they ultimately cannot hear it. Your subconscious is trying to tell you that her friend may indeed that one who is more willing to hear what you have to say. For the next dream, it signifies your desire for intimacy within the waking world, and the movie is symbolic of a traditionalist romantic fling.

[fosgate3]

I like your interpretation bornagain. Not that I'm any authority but that sounds like an accurate perspective. Initially, my thoughts seem to hang on what she said to you about being yourself. It made me wonder if perhaps you were slipping away from who you really are deep down and if you get back on track with yourself, you'll find things to go more along with what you want/plan. Still, without my limited perspective, I think bornagain's insight is very worthwhile to consider.

[Unsure]

Thank you for your time reading this and replying. The last few weeks since I had this dream, I asked myself a thousand times what does it mean, if it means anything at all. At first I thought it meant that I should go and find her in this small world of ours, contact her, ask her out if the situation is right. But now I am not sure if that is a good idea. Anyways, if you guys have anything to add, feel free. Thanks again.