Originally posted by satnitefever
Maybe this may sound abit blunt, BUT
there is a possibility of reaction formation here.
You being an advocate of children may show your denial into these sexual thoughts, in reality you might want to satisfy these dreams. *
Reaction reaction are rather common especially amongst anti-homosexuals, however they're more likely to be sexually turned on by homosexual acts than the common person. *
But dreams should never really be intrepreted litterately *
Yes, and 'reaction formation' may simply be a result of how the Subconscious Mind works totalistically, that is, the Subconscious Mind, when it is focussed on any subject, does not choose sides, but examines the entire thing or idea. The Conscious Mind may suppose that it is thinking as an advocate AGAINST pedophile sexuality, but the message the Subconscious gets is to open the complete can of worms that is pedophile sex. Likewise, organized gay bashers have a subconscious mind that has been pointed to the contemplation of every inconceivable homo-perversion.
Perhaps the Modern Age was too precipitate in dismissing the Wisdom in the Tradition of being entirely discreet and tacit regarding all things Sexual. Indeed, it at first surprised me that anybody should come on line, or publish on the front page of the New York Times that they dreamt of sexually abusing their own children. But she was an outspoken advocate and so she became used to a conversation that was endlessly suggestive of sex, sex, sex... even the continuous contemplation of sex with minors. I suppose the lesson here is that talking stirs up thought and thought stirs up ... well, everything that thought can stir up. Perhaps we should consider not talking about or even contemplating such things.
Well, then people insist that talking brings awareness, and awareness solves the problem. Well, as I see it, the BIGGEST PROBLEM with pedophilia is often the Systematic and Institutionalized Guilt that is imposed on these children when they are discovered. In most cases these children were guiltless and innocent and had no idea of the huge taboo they were engaged in, and could have easily enough simply walked away, though a bit more prepared for adolescence than any of their fellows. But, now, with all of the AWARENESS of the PROBLEM, these children are endlessly PUNISHED and made to feel abysmally GUILTY with all the therapies that are imposed on them that are intended to convey the point that they should NOT feel guilty, and that sex is NOT dirty and perverted, when the proper age is reached, but which in their imposition and context are emphasizing the very opposite. But children are not stupid. Instead of being allowed to run around and play, on tuesdays and thursdays every week for two years, they must spend an hour listening to therapists who insist upon brainwashing them that they should not feel guilty about something they in fact did not feel guilty about until the AWARENESS of the Adult world fell on their heads like a moral avalanche. The situation should be met with a strict "Johnny, one should not take one's pants off for strangers", and then wack his backside as though he had just used a bad word, and then FORGET ALL ABOUT IT -- for his good, your good and the good of the whole blessed world.
So, although it has set up a lucrative industry for psychological counselers, we need to wonder whether all this AWARENESS doesn't do more harm than good. Perhaps we should just keep quiet like our Victorian Ancestors and pretend for the sake of our own piece of mind that all is goodness and light and that Human Beings are ultimately Spiritual Creators, and that if we don't allow ourselves to talk about sex, then that will be one huge step taken in order to not be obsessed with sex.
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