First of all I tend to think that dreams do not really try to tell us something, not in the way of them telling us what to do anyway. They can point out to you your hidden or not so hidden desires and regrets, for example, your desire to get back in touch with this girl. However, it is still very much your choice. The dream can only show you that some part of you wishes you were still together or together again. But your conscious waking mind needs to decide whether or not this is a good idea, whether or not it is likely to produce a good outcome, whether or not you want to risk getting rejected, whether or not your conscious mind agrees with your subconscious on this.
Also, while it is possible that your subconscious is indeed pining after this girl, it is also possible that your subconscious is pining after this kind of relationship, and it used her face because it did not have a particular other face to fill in. It could be that you are lonely, and longing for a wonderful companion, and this girl may be the closest symbol that your subconscious could conjure up for that.
Generally long distance relationships or long distance friendships are very hard to sustain, unless both parties are very committed. Since you have not kept in touch, it is most likely that she has moved on, and I think that if you moved on to a different friendship or relationship with someone local to you, the chance of success would be much greater.
However, only you can decide for yourself what you want to do and then do it. It needs to be a conscious waking decision. Sure, you can take your subconscious intuition into consideration, but whether you want it to drive your conscious decision or just consult it, that is up to your conscious waking mind to decide.
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