Originally Posted by JoannaB
Well, personally, I would take that dream literally. But that is my personal belief, and not yours. Although it did tell you that no you are not supposed to now start worshipping God, just live your life while you have it, and just make sure you are not truly vile. It also told you that you have no way of knowing that this was not just a dream. Do you have any problems with any of that?
I can understand it. My troubled youth was mostly about drug addiction, I used to be a heavy meth user. I had nearly unlimited access and used daily for years. My girlfriend at the time didn't use drugs, she tolerated me and my stressful lifestyle for years. People coming and going at all hours, fights, and parties.... She had become pregnant and had miscarried due it stress in my opinion caused by my lifestyle. After nearly bleeding to death when we finally got home from the hospital, she looked at me and gave me an ultimatum. To either quit or she was leaving. I felt incredibly guilty, and obligated to this woman who had endured so much for me. We pack up our belongings and moved a few days later and put that past behind us. It wasn't easy to quit, I had to isolate myself from everyone I knew, at first people would come to visit bearing gifts so to speak, often it was hard to turn them away. After a few months people stopped coming, but I kept myself isolated. I married my Girlfriend and our first child was born a year later. It took nearly 5 years before the daily cravings for meth to go away. I would constantly dwell on it and found quitting to be very difficult. As I write this I have been drug free for 16 years this month, I have two children and a loving (spirited) wife with a huge potty mouth . But I have never reintegrated into society, and rarely leave our home (a handful of times a year).
Things happened in my childhood that instilled disdain within me, I was physically and sexually abused. Physically by my step mother who would make me strip nude as she beat and demeaned me. Sexually by a neighbor, and later by a transient man at knife point. As a young adult I found it difficult to trust anyone, and this was only amplified by my drug use, and subsequent isolation to quit my addiction. Even now as I near 40, I have a very difficult time even thinking about being around people outside of family, it literally ties my stomach in knots.
It has taken me nearly an hour to write this, tears have welled up in my eyes many times. I know what the dream means. It means I need to put myself out there and live my life instead of being locked away and guarded. But it still hurts..... a lot, to even think about it. Now, I am crying, so I think it is time to wrap this up for now. Thank you for lending a ear.
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