My husband and I have recently been struggling very much with what path our marriage is heading down - whether we should stay married or get a divorce.

One of our biggest issues that we have recently come to realize is our lack of frienndship. We went from 0 to 100 in a very short amount of time and didn't really have a chance to build that up. I am having a very hard time trying to sort out my feelings and decide what I think is best.

Last night I had a dream that I think was showing that we should just be friends. I don't remember most of the details, but I'll do the best I can.

We were out together somewhere (I don't konw where) and I saw a guy (I think I was dating, but I'm not sure) and my husband indicated that I should go him (there was no talking or anything) and we hugged before I left and it was emotional for me because obviously there is a lot of feeling there, but I cant describe the type of emotion it was. And then I left and I felt happy and then I woke up.

I know that's a terrible description, but it's been about 4 hours since I had the dream and most of it is gone. I think it was telling me that we need to just be friends, but I honestly don't know and could really use any insight that anyone can give me.

Thanks