Thread: Dream about one of the Kidney failure.

To me there are a few clues that pop out immediately.

1) You were both asleep, you and your wife. This I would interpret as a lack of will to address the area the dream is speaking of.

2) The doctors giving you the diagnosis through your wife
- Women in dreams speak very often represent intuition. This may be your intuition saying to look at a spesific area of your life

3) The kidneys themselves..
- They do the job of cleaning the body of toxic waste together with the liver. It might be that you are holding on to something that isn't good for you. It might be a personal relationsship. It might be a job. It might be some other area of your life. But it is creating an imbalance in some area of your life.

4) The fact that your family is crying and is upset, you also should take into consideration. If this was my dream, I would take that as a sign that this really wasn't good for me, even if it is possible to function with it in your life.

Now I don't know what area of your life the dream is addressing, but I think you should heed its warning. Also, you might want to check with your doctor, just to be on the safe side

Or maybe the problem is with your wife, or in your view of her.
Parts of you were arranging your mind-scan onto her, to find what was wrong with you.

Maybe it goes back to your childhood, in not getting rid of undesirable stuff, or even in how you relate to women, or not having grown enough to fix this yet.

One thing this idea reminds me of, this idea of finding out what is wrong with one, by examining other people: not in medicine but in criticism we do this all the time. We look at what is wrong with another person and criticize them and see their faults and are bothered by them more, when really what bothers us is that we actually have this issue ourselves but it is easier for us to admit that another person has a problem than for us to admit that we have this problem ourselves. Often people get most upset with someone else for a problem that is actually a problem they share but they do not want to admit it about themselves.

Alternatively, doctor examining your wife and your reacting to that with "why her, by me, I am the one you need to pay attention to, I am the one who needs help." This could be a dream of wishing more attention was payed to you, a feeling of being neglected. We all sometimes feel neglected, and not acknowledged enough, like the world does not recognize our contributions enough. And maybe if there is something that has brought others focus to your wife or to someone else (could be about a business partner or another family member - does not actually need to be about your wife) but not you, may may feel like the focus should shift to you.

That's all the thoughts I have about this right now. As always my ideas can of course be incorrect, and please feel free to disregard anything that does not sound right.

If neither my ideas nor those of the others sound right, please tell us a bit about yourself and issues that you are facing - if we knew more about you, we could interpret the dream in context, and would be more likely to be more correct.

Thank you so much all.

I forgot to mention. In my dream. I went to the clinic for examine myself. but they ask both of us to lay down. and examined her to find the defect in me. When I asked why examine her when i was the person affected. They said, now they can diagnosis her to know more about me.

Some facts.

I lost my job a year ago. so I am at house. trying to cake up few consulting works (not a great one) I put so much effort for less return.
My daugther is not well past few days. so we both were little worried
I am under going treatment for back pain, i started new medicals to cleanse my body. its an ayurveid medic.
I mediate twice a day. I recently got lot of interest in spiritual interest i am researching and learning about various ancient methods that has not yet disclosed in any english books.

Well, it sounds like there is a lot of health concerns in your family, th issue of your daughter's health is probably prominent on your mind, and you have had interactions with a medic, so it is only natural that this would get integrated into your dreams, so the medical facility in the dream is due to that. It could also be that the reason why in your dream your kidney problem is something someone warned you in childhood, that could be because your mind was thinking about your medical issue and the health issue of your child (your daughter), and this is how it combined those.

I still think that the idea that perhaps attention or focus is shifted from you to your wife may be part of the meaning of this dream. Now that you do not have a job, perhaps your role and your wife's role in your family the focus has shifted/changed? And perhaps this dream is a bit about that as well. How now you are more dependent on your wife, and need her help to figure things out?

The spiritual connection seems to be stronger I think with the other dream with the slaughtering of the cow as religious ritual. Although, I guess this dream could also be a sign that you are in a crisis situation (spiritual crisis? personal crisis?) with kidney failure representing a spiritual/mental/emotional failure. With kidneys luckily we have two of them, so a human can still live with just one, but not nearly as well. In a similar way maybe you feel that you are only partial, that something is so wrong in your life that a crucial part of you has failed and you are surviving but not thriving.

Another thought: with one kidney gone (perhaps representing no job?), you are only part of the man you used to be, and you are relying on your wife to be right by your side to make up for it by perhaps doing some of what you used to be able to do when you were whole. So this could actually be about your acknowledgement of your wife's role in a positive way, your realization that she complements and supports you when needed.