Somehow I like dream#7 best, it's cute that you're washing dishes together while you're hinting to him that it's your anniversary
My intuition about it all is that it's human nature to make up stories to help us on how we live our lives, such as mythology. I can't quite explain it, but somehow the mind uses these stories that parallel one's own life or situation as a source of lessons or ideas. It may just be nature's ways of changing you inside, and how you live your life on the outside.