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    1. 12-29-2005 10:34 PM #1
      jayski
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      Dreaming about a family member :S

      I took a trip to italy this past summer, and i met alot of my family for the first time, what made an impact was my cousin, she is 15 and meeting eachother for the first time we had some sort of strange attraction to eachother, well i know those feelings are totally wrong, and it wasnt my choice to feel this way, but sometimes u feel it deep inside, and u have a connection with somebody that you cant explain. for the two weeks i was there we constantly flirted, but never actually said anything about how we felt, cuz i guess we both knew it was wrong, so we kept it inside. since i've been home now ( toronto, canada) we've ben e-mailing back and forth, keeping in touch and saying how we miss eachother and all the family back in italy. also since i've been home, every once in a while i have a dream about her, and most of the time they contain sexual contact between her and i, which is disturbing me considering she is family and that is completely wrong. i really am not sure what to do about this situation, weather i must confront her and tell her how i feel that way its not bottled up inside and i can move on knowing we are family and thats it. any help would be greatly appreciated. thank you.
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    2. 12-30-2005 02:03 AM #2
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      Re: Dreaming about a family member :S

      jayski.....HELLO & WELCOME

      Sometimes our human instincts are very complex. IMO I would not feel guilty about this. You new it was wrong and because of that, nothing happened.
      Sometimes peoples Carma's just click!
      Probably a bigger anomaly than we actually realize, our brain is processing so much information all at one time visual and physical.
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    3. 12-30-2005 12:43 PM #3
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      Is it wrong?

      Well I have to agree with Howetzer here.. Your carma just simply clicked and it worked out. Its not uncommon in most cultures for cousins to marry each other but for other cultures its wrong so that descision would have to be explored in greater detail by the individual but here is the key thing... since your both still very young ( I am assuming around 15ish) then I certainly would not act upon impulses or strong feelings. Now if you where both conciderably older (Adults, though I hate that word..lol ) then maybe you could possibly see the bigger picture with these emotions.. More factors certainly are involved here than just the emotional side.
      Expect the dreams to come because they certainly have a deep impact on dreams. Its all frustrating I am sure in many ways but your already very mature minded to recognize all these factors so "bravo" on that part my friend and i wish you luck in dealing with this...
      To journey life without a dream is nothing more than a nightmare....


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