Thread: Old Farm Sex Dream ...What Can It Mean?

Wow.

First, don't worry about the damn horse.
At no time, while reading your post did I feel like there was anything wrong. I don't believe that you would cheat on your boyfriend, and I don't believe that you like horses too much. Heh.

What is the purpose of this forum?
To learn to become more logical and aware in your dreams.
Obviously, there wouldn't be a forum about it if, in fact, we were not ILLOGICAL and UNAWARE in our dreams. This is not the kind of illogical that makes you do stupid things when you are drunk. This is the kind where things aren't always what they seem.

I have an idea...
I could be way off. I wish I had a little more background.
How long have you been with your boyfriend?

I believe that the horse was your boyfriend. NOT A HORSE. lol
Do you think this horse could be a different side of him. Not necissarily good or bad, but just a part of him you haven't seen until now.
Perhaps the version of your boyfriend who was in the house represents the person that you knew before, or thought you knew.
Sometimes, over time, people can seem like they are completely different... Like different people.
It's possible that it isn't your knowledge of him that has changed, but your feelings. Maybe you feel stronger, (or weaker) for him.
Maybe he hasn't changed at all. Maybe you are just realizing things you didn't know about him, and these don't have to be bad. If you enjoyed it that much, they could very well be good things!

Or, it could be the other way around. The boyfriend in the house could be a representation of what you are learning. Perhaps you were revisiting the boyfriend that you used to know in your head (the horse), but at the end of the dream you returned to the boyfriend that you know now (the boyfriend in the house)...

Either way, there is a conflict in your mind. maybe that is why he got angry with you, asking you why you would do that.
I tend to believe that the boyfriend who got angry with you shows further indication that you could be discovering something new about your boyfriend. He is different than what you expected. He possesses traits that you say he does not have in real life. This would surprise you, just as learning new things would in real life.
Just because he was angry in the dream does not have to mean that there is anything wrong. Like I said, it could just mean a conflict between what you know, and thought you did.

The horse does, however, say to you that it is your boyfriend, so, whether the horse is what you knew before, or what you know now, it is still a part of him no matter what.

The creepy surroundings represent mystery and uncertainty, of course. Perhaps you are unsure, or you just simply don't know what to expect, (again, not necissarily in a bad way). This is consistent with the meaning as well.

I don't know. Let me know what you think. This is based on knowing nothing about your relationship.

But whatever the case, please don't feel the wrong way about it. You seem like a nice girl. You are just fine.

-sloth

The horse is raw engergy, the brown is worldliness, and the barn is the keeping back of your natural urges. The farm is the need to develop and grow an aspect of yourself and the Winter is depression or nongrowth. The bridge is a decision or junction, in this case I think between your reality and fantasy. The darkness is not knowing, and the glowing white eyes means the horses do know what they see.

My guess is that you have a kinky desire (not with horses) that your boyfriend does not share (and your exes know about.) The horses symbolize the fantasy but are not themselves the fantasy as everything in dreams is symbolic.

That's a good theory.
I have to disagree about everything in dreams being symbolic though.

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Or, it could be the other way around. The boyfriend in the house could be a representation of what you are learning. Perhaps you were revisiting the boyfriend that you used to know in your head (the horse), but at the end of the dream you returned to the boyfriend that you know now (the boyfriend in the house)... [/b]

He has changed alot since we first started dating (well over a year ago) and we've had more conflict with each other (but non ever great enough for us to split up over or that we can't work out). We've both talked about how we missed the days when we first got together... his general attidude and mindset from then is something I miss... that and how we felt so much passion for each other that we can't seem to find much anymore. (we never have the time)

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My guess is that you have a kinky desire (not with horses) that your boyfriend does not share (and your exes know about.) *The horses symbolize the fantasy but are not themselves the fantasy as everything in dreams is symbolic.

I do have a "kinky desire" that he does not know about, but neither do my exes. In my dream the horses were going crazy, and now that I think about it one actually had a cover over his eyes. It makes even more sense now... maybe. My two exes never got as far with me as they had wanted (dated eath for 2 years), but my current boyfriend has. One of my exes knows about this, the other doesn't...

Inspirer is great!

Dear Rune Kinsel,

Good. This is the Horse Dream Motif.

It set you apart. Only those with some degree of Spiritual Will Power have these Horse Motif Dreams.

You can forget the ordinary symbols for horses and what not. What this dream really means is that you are at the threshold of your training as something of a Spiritual Knight. Now, it is still up in the air about your ultimate success. But you have gotten a start, and that is more than most can say.

But WHAT a start.

In my first Horse Dream, my horse was something of a PIG and was given to eating overmuch. And his Riding Discipline left something to be desired.

But your Horse is lustful and has something of a temper control problem.

These are issues which you will have to deal with. Now, we can recognize that these are Strengths, but only when properly harnessed. After all, lust is just a crude way of saying Love. In this dream, it got you into trouble. Well, you will have to keep this horse from getting you into trouble. Remember, the Horse is for riding. You must see that its energies are utilized to serve your purposes. It is there for you. You are not there to serve it.

Now, I have had my Horse Motif Dreams for decades now. And in many Spiritual Dreams, me and my Horse are inseperable. We are friends. But it no longer orders me about as it did in my first dream. And doesn't set the course like it did in our first dream. Well, it does still eat clover and is a bit heavier then it should be... but this horse is now 40 years old! and can stand to be a bit fat for all the benefits it has allowed me.

So, suggest to yourself that you will train this horse.

Oh, and there were other horses. And a rundown farm. Perhaps you have more than one talent. Perhaps you have capacities in several directions. But your dream is telling you that all of this is out of repair. It will take discipline and work to put everything in the proper order.

But I suppose you are young. Get started and these Horses will make you something of a formidable person. While most people walk their way through life.... you will be on Horseback.

Hi rune kinsei

Its an interesting dream. When you said that you went to sleep angry with him that kind of gives away the meaning of the dream. I sincerely believe that within dreams contain conceptual thoughts and emotions about our situations. In this case the dream captures the EXACT feelings that you went to bed with.

In one sense we already know what those feelings are. The sense that you want her never to have existed comes across loud and clear and proves my point(the dream exactly captures your feelings before you went to bed)

The other symbols have the folowing symbolic value

HIS SISTER : His openess to certain feelings
STAGE : a very public and open declaration of something
GRADUATION : not sure - maybe you feel you have graduated in some sense. Perhaps that you are now HIS GIRLFRIEND and that has been proven in some way
DRIVE UP HILL : you want to take control ofn teh situation and drive ity in a direction you want to go in

Sisters tend to be symbols of emotional openess. Sisters link to moments when we become aware and open our eyes to certain feelings. They refer to moments when discuss and openly share our feelings in the same way that sisters openly share and discuss their feelings. in this case it refers to the way you want your boyfriend to open his mind and realise that YOU are his girlfriend now and that you wish him to recognise your feelings and see how much you hate his girlfriend.

Stages refer to very public and open comments.. in this sense they refer to your own wish for your bf to "say openly what you mean to him and to recognise and show your importance to him"

The car shows that you are frustrated and have taken control of the situation and forced him into certain ways of thinking which have caused frustrations.

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