You sound worried in a few places about people seeing you and judging you badly, both when you're flying and in the restaraunt. It sounds like at least in the dream you're tending towards low self-esteem, especially around people you don't know.

The part where you can't fly with the guy sounds like you might have been feeling that, even if you find the right guy, for some reason that you don't understand, you just can't make it work out. I say "even if you find the right guy," because you probably feel like you haven't yet, am I right? Not that you haven't liked anyone, but that you're probably still interested in meeting someone new?