Thread: Dream--- War and Love. What does this mean? please help me!

hey sorry i didn't know unitl after it was posted that this was the wrong spot... i know better now... sorry!

Hi - I'm still kind of new, too. I don't know if I'm not supposed to reply to dreams in the greeting area or not, so I'm sorry if I'm breaking any rules... but here goes:

In psychological/spiritual terms, what comes to mind, based on things I've gleaned, is that toilets and outhouses could represent the past. When people hang on to things of the past, psychologically, their own plumbing gets backed up.

So... could it be that someone is going to have to break through some sort of barrier from your past in order to get you to love again? Perhaps you have been hurt too badly in the past, and you'd like to love, but are afraid of it. Hence the military action - to pull you out of the outhouse, so to speak.

The college game - and the warning not to play... did something happen to you, relationship-wise, in college? Another thing to look at would be the game of throwing the ball back and forth = communication. Or maybe you're warning yourself not supposed to get involved too seriously with someone in college - the exchange isn't conducive to your purpose?

Which brings me to the girl who was left at the altar. I'd say communication about moving forward. I know horses used to represent communication, because they delivered mail, etc... and so cars could be looked at as their replacement. Maybe you were surprised that instead of being stuck in her past of being hurt and left at the altar, she was communicating... working through it and moving on instead of fighting - and so in the end, the new curly-headed guy is brought into her life (figuratively I guess, it could represent all people who are hurt but learn from it, work through it, and move on to bigger and better).

That's just my 2 cents. You should see how long my posts are when I put in a whole dollar!

PS- Had to add - I'm a big believer in synchronicity and things coming together for a higher reason, so I felt the need to add that I connected in 2 strange ways:

Toilet:
Yesterday morning, I had a big time deja vu experience in a grocery store pharmacy. It hit me as I saw an opening in the ceiling, and then a toilet being carried out of the pharmacy booth, that it was all eerily similar to a dream I'd had several months prior. (No wonder we never see the pharmacist from the waist down!). As I was in this amplified state of realization, some things came together as just the right people showed up to connect me to my Native American side of the family. Weird. Significance for me, in hindsight of what I posted to you? Maybe the discoveries of my ancestral past are going to save me from needing the pharmacy - or maybe a sign for alternative medicine.

Soldier:
Then, yesterday afternoon, I had this old Donny Osmond song "Soldier of Love" going through my head like crazy! It's the second time I'd been haunted by it - last time was a month or two ago. I'm not sure why it's resurfacing for me now.

Welcome to Dream Views.
I'd offer some help with that dream but I'm horrible with interpretation.



I suppose this should be magically whisked away to the dream interpretation section.

Hey I think you are completly right... when i was in college i dated this guy... he was my first boyfriend and being that i kinda let my feet off the ground.. we became really close he was like my best friend as well. then one day he dumped me said it was because he didn't have enough time for me... later on i found out her left me for some girl who he had cheated on me with... i was completly devistated... i was actully phiscally sick from the whole thing... it has been a year and a half and about a week ago i went of my first date since the whole thing. I had so much fun... he asked me on a second date and i had to say no because i have no idea if i can trust him.... I guess i realized that you can say anything you want... but meaning it is different and i havn't found a way to figure out if what some one is saying to me is the truth or a lie and i'm so afraid i'm gonna let some one special slip by. I guess i have to figure out how to get though this now... thanks for your help!