Thread: Hello- dreams driving my crazy and seek meaning that is not found in dictionary.Give it some thought

First I want to start off saying how great this forum has initially seemed to be with all the information.

I’m not sure I have came to the right place but this has been driving my crazy. I woke up and went to the book store and looked at 5-6 dream books trying to get some kind of meaning out of this and came up with nothing. I then search the net and found this site, read about lucid dreaming (which by the way seems like something I will try) and here I am.

I’ll get right to it. I have been having dreams the last few weeks about 2 x-girlfriends which at first didn’t seem to be a big deal. Until the dreams repeated themselves and these girlfriends were a while back. They were 6 ½ and 4 ½ years ago. Last night and the night before I had repeated dreams of the girlfriend 6 ½ years go. These dreams were not sexual but seemed pretty clear (the facial recognition) even though I haven’t even seen or talked to her in 4+ years. They were something I would just call an interactional dream.

The only thing I can come up with is when I wake up it makes me remember (with both relationships) what it was like to share such a close relationship and bond with someone. The crazy part is I was pretty young back when these relationships evolved and didn’t think I knew what love and or companionship was.

None the less I guess I am just craving such a relationship as I had with either of them because since then I have not met anyone that can compare. I have been in relationships since, sure, but I feel like they are just average and they don’t have that extra spark.

Dream on…


*added a few hours later**


After browsing this forum for a little bit I realized how many different dreams users are having. It made me think of the many many dreams I have had over the years. Dreams about Falling, being chased, natural disasters...love...ect. The think is, how ever awkward the dreams I have had, only the ones recently or in the past involving x girlfriends are the ones I even think are moderately important enough for me to look more deeply into. Maybe it's because both of these relationships ended early for reasons that no close sure was met on both sides. Maybe it's because I am in a place in life where I have grown to value a relationship more then in the past and crave its feeling. Or maybe I just needed to type this out so I could personally get a chance to understand what I'm thinking.
Dream on...