Hello!

My name is Sandy, this is my first time using this forum (and thanks for having it here to help!!). I am 27 year old, single stay at home mom from Toronto, Ontario. I have been in a long distance relationship for just about a year with a man named Bob, and my dreams sort of center around him. Our relationship is not going well - I do all of the effort, he wants to talk to me but doesn't necessarily care about seeing me, etc - and I have been thinking about/trying to break it off for months now. A big part of helping me get over this was a vacation I took to Cuba, which is where I had the first dream. The beginning of the dreams are always vastly different from each other, but the end is always the same. So here goes.....

At the beginning of the first dream it's night time and I am in Cuba at the beach disco of my resort. I am also apparently playing Survivor. The people that I met in Cuba were all there. Bob shows up and we start talking. I tell him that I just can't deal with this anymore, and he gives me a whole song and dance about how he likes me but just not enough. I got really angry and I look to one of the girls there and tell her I'm quitting the game, and I don't care what happens, but don't let Bob win the million dollars. Then I walk up the stairs from the beach disco to go back to my room.

When I get to the top of the stairs it's daytime and I'm on my street in Toronto. There is a bench outside of my house and two police officers are sitting on it. My dog runs out from behind them and comes to see me. I am upset that my dog is loose, and one of the police officers says to me that I need a better chain for her - she's been loose a couple times. My dog is a chihuahua and doesn't need a chain I tell them, and they say nothing. So I'm double angry now, and I take the dog into the house, but no one's there.

So I decide to go for a walk and I end up at the park by my house. There is a baseball diamond there and bleachers, so I went to sit on the bleachers. Bob's mother (who I have never met in real life, haven't even seen a picture) is there. She asks me to sit beside her, and she makes me calm because she's so sweet. She says that Bob just doesn't know what he wants and that I shouldn't give up on him so easily. I say that I am a parent and I don't have time or energy to waste on people who don't actually care about me. She just tells me to be patient and give it time. That's all I remember.

So I had that dream at the beginning of May. And maybe 10 times since I will have a random, normal dream where things from my day come at me, but I always end up at the park on the bleachers with Bob's mother. I don't understand why this keeps coming up, especially since I am not really interested in pursuing things with Bob anymore and I have no connection to his mother. Is it just me tricking myself into staying?

Please help!! And thanks so much for giving me and others a place to get some help!!