Homosexuality And Incest! What The Hell!

[GenericUser10621]

Bascially, i havent thought about lucid dreaming etc for over a month because i had my GCSEs, and completely forgot. So i got out of the routines of reality checks, dream journal and research etc and completely forgot. But recently (i have been on holiday for about 3 weeks now) my dream recollection has all of sudden improved and i can remeber 2 -4 dreams in detail wihtout even having to write hem down. However, two of these dreams have disturbed me deeply and i need your help exploring their meanings, thanks: The first happened about a week ago, and all i remember is me having sex with another man. And this man happened to look like Jim Carey as i remember it. During the dream i was thinking "ok, so im about to have sex with another man. is this wierd?" and so i penetrated him. After a couple of seconds of thrusting i woke up and felt disturbed. What does this mean? I am, to the best of my knowledge, heterosexual. Obviously, like everyone, i have had a sick thought or two about other men just to see what i felt - nothing, to be quite honest. So what should i make of this? The second, and extremely more disturbing dream happened last night, and i could only remember performing cunnilingus on my mother, and now i pretty much i hate myself. I remember the dream everytime i see my mother and feel sick, and just want the memory that this dream ever happened to go away. Also, what does it mean? I hate my mother. PLEASE HELP ME MAKE SENSE OF THESE!

[Liz]

Clearly you have been thinking a lot about sex and so, your subconscious puts sex into your dreams. Having a homosexual dream does NOT mean you are a homosexual. It also does NOT mean that your subconscious wants to “do” a man. This homosexual dream could have developed from a variety of issues that your subconscious drug up. Ask yourself why was it a comedian in this dream? Do you love his humor/ his style/ his hot girlfriend ? Was this the fourth time you have watched his movie because “you love Jim Carey” (not in a sexual way)? You dream is symbolic about desiring something that this comedian has...and not his butt since you are heterosexual. You know the answer. Think about this for a time. An Oedipal dream----YEAH!!!!! I love to discredit Freud. Please know that Sigmund Freud experimented with drugs, several kinds, making many of his theories suspect and/or ridiculous. Scientists, in any field, are supposed to be sober to accurate record finding/interpret findings/make sound hypotheses. No, you don’t subconsciously want to “do” your mom. This dream is NOT abnormal. You are probably an individual that feels that your mom is unappreciative of you. Or, you wish, for once, that you could please her because she is never happy/ always beotching. Forget this dream or interpret it as a dream where you gave your mom flowers to satisfy her/ please her (to stop the nagging or whatever your mom does that harasses you). If you don’t want additional dreams like this with your mom, then you need to: a. never think about sex (lol) b. Master lucid dreaming and prohibit unwanted activity in dreams c. identify the problems between your mom and yourself and work on healing them--the healthiest choice

[GenericUser10621]

You Make Sense! Awesome! Clearly you have been thinking a lot about sex and so, your subconscious puts sex into your dreams. Having a homosexual dream does NOT mean you are a homosexual. It also does NOT mean that your subconscious wants to “do” a man. This homosexual dream could have developed from a variety of issues that your subconscious drug up. Ask yourself why was it a comedian in this dream? Do you love his humor/ his style/ his hot girlfriend ? Was this the fourth time you have watched his movie because “you love Jim Carey” (not in a sexual way)? You dream is symbolic about desiring something that this comedian has...and not his butt since you are heterosexual You know the answer. Think about this for a time. Im not really a big fan of Jim Carey and hadn't seen a movie with for a while, and like i said, it may not have been Jim Carey. OH! I have been thinking of writing some stand-up comedy for the past few days - maybe that was a trigger? But why it was Jim Carey, i dont know! An Oedipal dream----YEAH!!!!! I love to discredit Freud. Please know that Sigmund Freud experimented with drugs, several kinds, making many of his theories suspect and/or ridiculous. Scientists in any field are supposed to be sober to accurate record finding/interpret findings/make sound hypotheses. Dont worry, i love Freud! No, you don’t subconsciously want to “do” your mom. This dream is NOT abnormal. You are probably an individual that feels that your mom is unappreciative of you. Or, you wish, for once, that you could please her because she is never happy/ always beotching. Forget this dream or interpret it as a dream where you gave your mom flowers to satisfy her/ please her (to stop the nagging or whatever your mom does that harasses you). Yes, i like your take! Ill try to forget what happened techincally, but what i was trying to do (make her happy). If you don’t want additional dreams like this with your mom, then you need to: a. never think about sex (lol) b. Master lucid dreaming and prohibit unwanted activity in dreams c. identify the problems between your mom and yourself and work on healing them--the healthiest choice a) OK, but im a 16 year old boy and i only remember having 3 very sexual dreams (the two above and a normal one i was comfortable with) and ALL have occurred in the past 2 weeks! I am still a virgin and haven't even been friends with a girl, but yes of course i think of sex! To be quite honest, the one normal one i had i didn't want to end! Ive embarrassed myself now haha b) Im starting to try again, and hopefully i will (thats why we are all here, right? haha.) c) It really isnt that easy. Thanks for your help and advice! You are pretty awesome!

[music_man]

Well the first dream I'm not so sure what that might mean...but it has nothing to do with that you secretly might be gay or something lol so don't worry. BUT the one about your mom I agree with Liz. When people usually have sex with reletives it means that you want to have a closer relationship with them or fix problems you may have with them. I had the same kind of dream when I was a kid about my dad. So it has nothing to do with you wanting to have sex with your mom haha.. (and I'm a teenage virgin too so I feel your pain )