Hi baphomet,
My biggest question approaching this was: Why Nebraska? You might want to think about what Nebraska means to you. I find looking it up that the name means "flat water" and comes from the Sioux. It's major industries are agriculture, food processing, and oil production.
I'm going to go with the "flat water", but if you tell me it means something else to you, I'll think about that later too. Flat water to me is like still water, which runs deep, but also water often symbolizes emotions, and flat emotions tend to come to us when we're depressed or grieving.
I'd say your friend Mark's death had a major impact on you, and at way too early an age, and it's perhaps left you feeling trapped in being sad all the time. I am so sorry that happened, and it didn't just happen to Mark, it happened to everyone who cared about him, including you! I had a younger brother (he was born when I was fifteen), Tom, who died in 1986 from a cocaine overdose, which he took while out at sea on a fishing boat that he'd just returned to for work, just after having been declared in remission from bone cancer two days prior. This happened the day after Thanksgiving that year. He was afraid of the cancer, and his drug problems were serious, and I have come to the conclusion, since I believe in reincarnation, that he had pretty much blown any chance of completing his lessons for this lifetime, and it really was time for him to leave the earth plane. It may be, and I know this might be hard to hear, that the staph infection was an easier and quicker way for Mark to die, and that in fact, it saved him a lot of more severe suffering from the cancer.
But what it also does is leave you stuck in Nebraska, flat waters, feeling emotionally deadened, and that is why you feel so desperate to get out of there! People respond in different ways to the death of a loved one. My mom reacted to Tom's death by spending ten years on prescription tranquillizers washed down with double martinis, and then developed cancer herself and died in 1996. Tom's death took all the light out of her life, and it was really sad to watch, and feel helpless, because I coudn't help her at all! I tried, taking her books by Raymond Moody about "Life After Death", but she just got angry when I did. Nothing could bring her peace. She had before then been a vibrant woman who sold real estate, flew airplanes and was a flight instructor, skiied, did a mulititude of crafts, just full of life! But Tom's death just took it all out of her.
My response to Tom's death was to get hit over the head by my dreams and get a spiritual wake-up call that actually pulled me OUT of a long term clinical depression that I had had since 1976. I had to understand death, and life, and why we're here. It became an adventure, and a salvation. I think it was about those flat waters of emotional deadening of depression turning to the still waters that run deep. I even used the screen name WellWater for a long time! You can take this experience and turn it to gaining a lot of depth of understanding yourself and your life.
You speak here of being alone in the dream, and Texas is often called "The Lone Star State." You need to take hold of what will help you grow and make you feel better, to be the star of your own life for awhile, to examine yourself and your feelings, and treat yourself kindly and well. Do little things for yourself, like taking lovely scented bubble baths, or painting your toe nails a new color, or reading something you've been dying to read but haven't had the time. Whatever it is that makes you feel like you're in the Lone Star State. See? Take care of you!
A dream character who talks in riddles is often an inner guide, actually, and need not be feared. They like to work on our minds, get us to think outside the box, tease us with possibilities we haven't thought of before. He is the source, I think, of using "Nebraska" to refer to "Flat Water." Dreams do a lot of that! Names are often very important to learn the meaning of when they appear in dreams, as the meaning may be the symbol, rather than, or as well as, the actual person or place.
Anyway, I wish you all the best, and I hope you'll try to make yourself the star of your life at least once a day, and let us know what you choose to do for yourself in that regard first! Take care!
If you want to talk more, I'll be checking back!
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