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    1. 01-07-2010 05:15 PM #1
      Miladinoski
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      Dream about the girl I really like

      Long story short; I have a friend (female) which I met recently and got acquainted on a good level, won't go into too much detail.

      I'll put it this way: she's the most amazing person I ever met, and all my previous crushes and "loves" seem nothing when compared to her - I might just as well love her, but that's not the point I'm trying to make. And I.. I'm not quite experienced with dating girls, nor I have the size of the social outlook which other people enjoy (her included). We talk about different stuff and I love making her laugh (or anyone for that matter ), but I don't think I'm attractive to her.

      One week ago, I dreamed about how I told her how much I like her (while she had the most wonderful outfit - black clothes, she was smiling and looked w/o a single blemish) and that I want to go out with her; she just looked me in the eyes and her eyes lost the shine and she went away. I can't really remember what the scenery was during that, but suddenly I was inside a big building (which reminded me of nothing I've ever been before) with big windows and I overlooked at her walking away... I can't remember the other parts of the dream.

      And today, just when I thought I would have better dreams of her, I had another dream where I got extremely well known to her, almost to the point where we would hug, but then one of my friends introduced to her and almost immediately became a better friend to her than me, while I stopped talking to her and just looked at her eyes and she looked back at mine. Afterwards the scene switched to 3rd person during this happening - very weird) and I saw myself really, really sad; my palms on my face and felt indescribable pain (even though as third person). I realized she wasn't in the room at all in the first place, almost like I fantasized as I was dreaming - like a meta-dream.

      Something else happened afterwards, but I can't quite remember what, except that the ending was very traumatic for me and I woke up.

      These dreams obliterate every single thought of me asking her out or telling her that I like her and it just makes me feel very bad...

      Any help on the meaning and what I should do would be more than welcome!

      Thank you.
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    2. 01-09-2010 12:42 AM #2
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      OK, I know it's wrong to bump, but I'm really troubled by this because she's not talking to me (nor texting back) as she did before... (And there hasn't been a response to this tread in two days, while even newer threads received at least one )

      Can you tell me what I am actually feeling so I should know what to do?

      Thanks
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    3. 01-09-2010 12:54 AM #3
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      I must start out by saying that YOU are the only one who can interperate your dreams. However, I have an idea at what it could mean:

      These dreams could simply mean that you lack self confidence around girls, and that you have the very common self-defeating mentality of "How could she ever...". Like I said, it's very common, and is something that I think all of us go through to some degree at least once. However, these dreams don't mean that she wouldn't/couldn't like you. My advice is to just start off as friends and see if the relationship expands into anything greater sometime later. As harsh as the reality is, she may not be attracted to you yet. Maybe YOU aren't ready for a relationship yet? Like I said, you are the only one who can interperate the deeper meaning of dreams. Good luck!
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    4. 01-09-2010 01:16 AM #4
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      Don't worry about it.

      Your probably just nervous that she would reject you. IMO dream interpratation can only tell what your thinking about, not what will happen in the real world. I have had similar dreams, and I know how they can make you feel. Just forget it and it should stop. If they do continue, make it a dream sign, and get lucid. The go win her back.

      Simply: The dream means you're worrying about rejection.

      Sorry if I go off topic, but you should try to become her friend. Talk to her and be there for her. In my experience girls like nice boys more than loud, show offs. Get close to her, and who knows. If you do become friends, and she wants to keep it that way, respect that, and continue to be her friend. Who know, eventually she may fall for you too. It's happened before

      Good luck.
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