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      Question 4 diff. dreams of the same boy who seems 2 b from the 1800s. feel comfortable round him n dnt no why

      ok here is the deal, so far i have had 4 different dreams with the same boy in it. he is around my age (16-17ish)and i have never ever seen him before in my life. i havent seen him before or these following people in my entire life and they are all from the same era:
      Dream 1: to sum this dream up i dreamt of a life size photo from the late 1800s with this father, this little blonde girl (who was scary to me and i dont know why. she had a face of a monster (i know its weird)) and this amazing looking boy around my age.
      Dream 2: im waiting for someone on a wooded beach with lots of rocks and the same boy ends up coming up to me. we walk for a while and talk. (he's dressed in old old clothes. when he first came up to me he had combed hair from the 1800s but then he messed it up with his hands) all i can remember from the convo we had was i had to find his fiance. i went to find her and she was in the water. the whole time i was there talking to her we were in the water and the longer we were there the worse and more scared i felt.
      Dream 3: i was in one of those local history places a town would normally have and where they would normally hold postcards on those spinning racks there were old photos from the 1800s. i went to that area immediately. i was looking through the photos and finally found what i was looking for. i shouted to the person who was with me (i dont know who though) to come and see the photo because i finally found them. the people in the photo were the same boy and his dad.
      Dream 4: i had this dream last night. i was with him on the beach. we touched a lot (not in a dirty or sexual way) i am pretty sure we hugged once. we talked a lot too, though, like all my other conversations with him, which this is only my second one with him, i cant remember a word of it. we were on a beach and all of a sudden i saw about 5-7 graves. i ran over to them and started to cry because i felt i knew these people. he came up to me and pulled me away from them and comforted me.

      everytime i wake from these dreams it feels likehe's still with me. i feel like i need him to be with me. he makes me calm. i dont even believe he is real. i also cant remember a word from our 2 conversations. as soon as the words are said they are forgotten. how can i possibly bring back the conversations so i remember them long enough to write them down?

      the only things i remember of the boy is that if we stood next to each other that the top of my head would come to the top of his shoulder (i am only 5' 4") and he had brown hair. mind you, i never ever met him before or those other people. i also recently moved into a new house across the country a few months ago and my parents are close to a divorce could this be why im having these dreams of this boy and if so why? these 4 dreams have gone on in the month of February to now. any possible help would be wonderful and much appreciated. i dont know why but i really want to see him again. is it possible to fall for someone in your dreams? i have never fallen for anyone before.

      thank you for reading what i have to say and i thank you for your responses.
      Last edited by cinimini2011; 03-08-2010 at 02:52 AM. Reason: forgot some details

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      he could be your "perfect man." Basically, who your Sub-concious wants to date. I would recomend talking to him, and maybe doing the things in the dream recall tutorial. http://dreamviews.com/community/showthread.php?t=66343
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      All of our dreams have similar themes. I learned from "Man and His Symbols" by Carl Jung. His understanding is not complete. We should keep learning from our dreams. They are telling us something very important. His book is old. It is not up to date. It does teach correct method that works. Jung said dreams come from the divine Self in so many words. I agree and this Self is everything and therefore we get message from God or advanced Godlike beings. Jungs basic symbols: Water is the unconscious or things coming to awareness from Self or Godlike beings Warnings and instructions...We all have archetype of water. We all also have archetype of anima and animus and shadow. These hidden parts need to come up from the water to the surface. ie our awareness. We can be warned about dangers in our world. We can talk more if you are interested. My dream of the beach may help you understand. Our dreams are synergistic. I dreamed once that many of us will put our dreams in a book of mine and it will save the world. If dreams are misinterpreted they are useless. I know how.

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      Hi cinimini

      Yes, as YYNYM says, he's "yours".

      You may be wondering why he has the attributes you have been dreaming about. Well, that's hard to explain. In these sorts of dreams it seems to be normal to have some kind of link to the past and I can only assume that this is our way of illustrating our longing to be reconciled with the part of us which we left behind when we took our current identity - hence our dream partner is of the opposite sex for many of us. These kinds of dreams tend not to be sexual but there always seems to be a feeling that you've been together for a long time, or have re-found each other, and that you don't want the dream person to go.

      For a theoretical approach, google "Jung animus" to find lots of info on what Jung says about our opposite sex archetype. There are many other theories too, all probably with their own strengths and weaknesses.

      For a practical approach, again I'm with YYNYM on this. Try and find "him" in your dreams and also in real life. You won't find "him" in a real person, but you may sense he's around especially when you're feeling alone. You may find you can talk to him too and get to know him. I believe that in connecting with our dream lover we can experience more wholesome relationships with real people, because we don't idealise others so much. The idealisation I believe is linked to our dreams and fantasies of the perfect lover.

      Any thoughts about the 1800s? Somthing about your family perhaps?
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