Quote Originally Posted by Taosaur View Post
Yes, a spoonful weighs a ton.

But regarding effeminate affect, I suspect one reason it's so much more common in gay men is that it's actively suppressed in straight men in our misogynistic culture.
Once you have known the support of a buddha, there is no greater.
In this example, once the support is lost there is no other that can hold.

Applied vice versa - perhaps that becoming so open suddenly, withdrawing the 'greatest' inhibition, can have the effect of not closing floodgates of eccentric expression.