These labels are not arbitrary and most psychologists will agree that there is a dynamic for sexuality. Sexuality is a diverse and profound field which only reflects the common profound and diverse nature of the human mind.
I really tired of the "can not label" mentality. The fact is, language and categories can always be used in utility and reference - not representation. Only the fool will truly think in linguistic representation and you ought not to let those people bother you.
Where you change and adapt throughout your life, so does your sexuality and everything else about you. However, there are always linguistic terms to reference to what you are experiencing because, believe it or not, most of what you experience has been experienced by others. I know the spiritualist and the subjectivists alike will squeal at that remark but this is just my point -there will be nothing to argue with for a subjectivist. "You cannot label X. You cannot speak of Y" leads nowhere. You might as well devolve human language and development in this respect. This is a great obstacle for the scientific endeavor because humans are always too inclined to fabricate their uniqueness.
Sexuality
Kinsey was a great psychologist for the development of the psychology of sexuality. While there were questionable things about his results, his continuum is accepted to this day:
As you can see, most people can locate themselves (at that time) at a specific point in this continuum which allows for almost every sexual preference. The only sexual preference not really accounted for here is the sexuality towards non-human things.
The point here is that you can change easily over time and think differently over time but most people's sexuality will gravitate towards a certain spectrum. I personally would find myself at "1" but this also does not mean I have a hatred or adversity towards homosexuality or homosexuals - I am simply not generally attracted towards those of my sexuality.
An important thing to note is that most people will generally label themselves in this way. There's many reason for this but it is generally a sense of avoiding personal confusion. Most people don't want to think on a continuum and would rather keep things black and white to help themselves understand themselves. Transgendered people have a severe habbit of doing this for obvious reasons. The point is that labeling actually helps a lot more than not labeling.
+ Percent Reporting They Are Heterosexual by Gender and Age Cohorts (F=Female, M=Male)
In this graph, 2,844 respondents to an Ethnic and Religious Attitudes survey, 65% of the Under-25 females reported they are heterosexual, compared to 85.5% of the 25-34 age group, 84.7% of the 35-49 age group, and 91.2% of the 50+ age group. The substantial decline of heterosexuality among the Under-25 females is not matched by the Under-25 males, who report heterosexuality at a rate of 86.4%. The rest of the male age cohorts are remarkably constant, as the 25-34 cohort reported 88.8%, the 35-49 cohort reporting 89.9%, and the 50+ cohort reported 88.5%.
Do you not see the significant polarization of "labeling" of your sexuality? We could break this down more, but the point is that a significant amount of people adapt the polarized sexuality labels anyway.
Subjectivity and Labeling
Furthermore, how practical would it be for everyday life to explain who you are if you do not believe in the pragmatic value of language?
Seriously, I am beginning to consider attacking subjectivists because it's all too often people who are obviously attacked often but do not take into the count of many people who understand dynamics but still must used language to understand the world around them. Subjectivity has very little practical value outside of your own mind - hence the very reason it's subjectivity and not objectivity.
Why has "labeling" been stigmatized? Why is it a pejorative term now? I hear too often people just say, "Ohh, he labels people and objectifies.. yeah, he's like that" but then there's no followed reasoning or justification for why this is apparently wrong? Subjectivity is a big bag of fail.
Not to say that objectivity is the be all end all, because I know people will think that of me before reading my complete post. My point is that all things need to be taken into account - interactionism is truly the best and all encompassing solution. I seriously do not understand why people do this and yet also often consider themselves "non-dualistic" by isolating their mentality to one side or the other.
What do you think...?
Edit:
Notice how many people of religious faith commit to these labeling? I think it is the people of religion that believe sexuality is a curable "illness" that cause sensitivity about the subject. Furthermore, I think it is the natural dynamic of human sexuality that causes people to believe that it truly can be changed! Consider that, in any religion, there will be people who vary in the dynamic and those people will be biased to think that "I have felt that way.. and I resisted!" however, as we see above, there is a dynamic. Thus, there is a lot of variables to take into consideration.
What's my point here? Well, I personally point the finger at religion for a lot reasons and I am personally and explicitly stating that religion is the most opposing force to any sexuality besides heterosexuality. Any religious person willing to dispute this ought not to be of a mainstream religion because it is abundantly clear, even from the above survey, that those of religious faith have an issue understanding and being sympathetic to the sexual diverse.
But it does not matter how much evidence is provided, right? Because "God" said so... or for some other subjectively defined reason that can never be argued..
Thus only reinforcing my point.
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