[QUESTION] Help me understand this girl that keeps popping into my dreams

[brassy147]

Ok first post here and dont know much about dreams but i really cannot understand whats happening. I had a dream today where i was in a bar in another country with my friend and my family members celebrating something (cant remember). Lets just say these were the main characters of the dream. I cant remember much of the interactions we had during the time i was dreaming but there was one part that i remember very well, i was at the bar drinking and when i look toward the dancefloor i see random people dancing. It wasnt until i saw one girl that i know i have either met or seen before, i had no interaction with her and she had looked back at me and squeezed out a little smile but then i just continued on with my dream. Fast forward to waking up, i had been thinking about the dream and that it felt so real like i could almost live it and control it (not sure what that means) but then i started thinking about this girl and who she was, had i met her before? Im not sure if i am correct when i say this but i started thinking about who are the random people in the background of our dreams, lets call them ""extras"" much like extras on a movie set to fill out the scene, you have no interaction with them but you know they are there. So i started thinking well these all cant be random people, i have to have seen them or met in my life whether it be when i was really young or even at the age i am now, much like in the movie inception i started thinking they were a projection of my sub-concious... (not sure if thats correct at all just what i was thinking). But then i kept remembering that i have had dreams where this girl made a appearance before, like ALOT of dreams.. mainly all of them. I dont ever talk to her or ever really take much notice and she is never a main character but she is always there, much like when in real life you e.g at a bar and scanning the room of people, she will be one of those random faces you see. And this happens all the time in my dreams, for example i remember having a dream where i was in a supermarket doing something and she was there shopping and we smiled at eachother. and this has happened in pretty much all my dreams.. just random quick interaction that is not involved in the main theme of the dream. While im dreaming it doesnt occur to me who she is or "hey i know you" or anything like i have seen her before, its not until i wake up that i start to think hey wtf who is she i have seen her so many times... and if it helps in the dream i am VERY attracted to her, and it seems she is to me aswell, everytime we see eachother its like one of those "love at first sight" (even tho i dont believe in that) moments you see in the movies where everything stops for a few seconds and we just hold a constant gaze.. i am really intruiged as too what this means and who she is... i dont understand much about dreams and if anyone can help it would be much appreciated, sorry for the long wall of text but its a lot to really explain and anyone who has read all of it i would love your input. Thanks.

[xkldx]

u sure you never saw her in real life ?!

[tsiouz]

Look an example to give you an explanation. For instance. Somebody is in a war.lot's of shooting.then he hides into a ruin.and then strangely a phone rings. Same person other dream. somebody is on a park.he sees a murder.somebody is chasing him.hes running.and then to his right he sees a phone ringin. imagine a lot of scenarios with a phone ringin in the same way. What happens: Subconcious has a coded protocol. In this coded protocol exist portals.sometimes are events,sometimes are common patterns of all sorts. In the following examples the phone is just a window when you enter or exit a dream or a dream changes phase. So this girl is the connecting line which propably connects a series of dreams.The strong sentiment you've got for her at your dream means that inside your dream a certain sentiment ovverides the connection with the enviroment. That is a phase on your dream.start exit or transition or certain pattern. So you have to connect the lines when this pattern occurs. Hope it helps. if you need further explanation let me know.

[TheGritz]

Maybe it could be your dream guide? The idea of a DG sounds a little weird to some people, but you never know what's possible in dreams.

[Pixiedreamer]

sigh I have a dream person like that not sure if hes my dream guide .But I found a dream journal really helps I have a paper one I write in when I wake up then I post some of them later online ..But it helps you realize the frequency and will give you a good descpription of the person . Then at least when your out and about in real life if you see her you would know . or in a dream you could ask her more I have found its easier for me to remember to ask them what I want in my dreams if I write about it . Good luck

[Darkmatters]

"Help me understand this girl that keeps popping into my dreams" This is an impossibility. Everyone knows girls can't be understood - dream characters or otherwise. I mean come on - be for real!!