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      boyfriend dream, help!! connection with house,tree,birds

      Hi, i had a dream a few days ago and I'm extremely curious about what it means.
      On that night, I prayed to God to let me have a meaningful dream to help guide me.

      DREAM:
      I saw myself standing next to my current boyfriend in front of a 1 floor house.
      *(it feels like it's ours) + (I've known him for 7 years, we dated for a short period of time before, and we actually just got back together about a week ago. We are in a long distance relationship at the moment)*
      It feels like it took place in the afternoon, probably around 3 or 4 pm, it was a sunny day. I don't see any other houses, but it felt like we were still in a neighbourhood, in a countryside/forrest.
      What's significant in that dream is this giant oak tree in front of our house (at the yard) . It looks like it's 60years old, but still very much alive.
      Then, I remember seeing birds flying onto the branches of the oak tree. I don't remember what kind of birds it were & i'm not sure about my feelings towards them either. I didn't feel attacked by the birds nor do i feel like it brought me some kind of peace in that dream.
      At the end of my dream, I remember asking my boyfriend "Are those birds going to stay on the branches? Will there be more of them coming?".
      Then he replied "Don't worry about it", and he smiled.

      I would really appreciate every single comment and would love to know your perspective on this!
      Thank you very much!!!
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      To my knowledge, on such Dreams of Significance, there are usually symbolic details that would make the most sense to the person who had the dream. So ultimately making sense of the whole might require knowledge or associations only you would make.

      The motifs I notice, however, are something like this.

      The House: It is something that both of you own.

      The Tree: It is something that is old and firmly established. It is on your property, and thus again is something you both own. It probably needs to be considered alongside the birds, and so-

      The Birds: Something, many new things, both good, bad, and neither, that come and nest upon the tree. And an uncertainty to how many more may come.

      Here would be my guess:

      We have something new arriving and settling itself atop something old and firmly established, with an uncertainty on whether that new thing will stay, and what new things will arrive.

      So you say "I've known him for 7 years, we dated for a short period of time before", so you have a prior relationship. A relationship that old, and established. A thing you both own.

      And you say "we actually just got back together about a week ago. We are in a long distance relationship at the moment". So there is also a new relationship, containing uncertainty perhaps.

      So I'd hazard to guess the birds are the new relationship, and all that this new relationship brings, which is building off of an old, firmly established relationship, symbolized by the tree.

      And then, finally, the dream's message to you in relation to these new developments: "Don't worry about it".

      But that's just a guess. Admittedly a limited one given my own lack of knowledge on all details of your personal life.
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      Considering you are not in her head, I think you’ve probably hit the nail on the head! And I think I have a way to confirm it... 21W needs to think about their feelings as they read your post, then if that feels right, then it’s true. Plus I have a trick I use too... if I was making a movie with those elements in it, what would I be trying to represent? For example I spent months trying to figure out why I had dreamt about a 2yr old Sudanese baby that was struggling to do something and was getting frustrated. I asked a lot of people, and no one could figure it out! I worked out that she represented me and my struggles that I still haven’t gotten past since childhood. It was during my second ever LD, and I had asked the Dream to tell me something I needed to know about. It wasn’t very specific, but no one else could have told me that, as I’m the only one that knows my true personality and inner-self.
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      Considering you are not in her head, I think you’ve probably hit the nail on the head! And I think I have a way to confirm it... 21W needs to think about their feelings as they read your post, then if that feels right, then it’s true. Plus I have a trick I use too... if I was making a movie with those elements in it, what would I be trying to represent? For example I spent months trying to figure out why I had dreamt about a 2yr old Sudanese baby that was struggling to do something and was getting frustrated. I asked a lot of people, and no one could figure it out! I worked out that she represented me and my struggles that I still haven’t gotten past since childhood. It was during my second ever LD, and I had asked the Dream to tell me something I needed to know about. It wasn’t very specific, but no one else could have told me that, as I’m the only one that knows my true personality and inner-self.

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