The girl of my dreams

[terminator]

I can remember still to this day a few months ago I had a dream that felt so vividly real that I am still imprinted with the feelings it stirred inside me. In my dreams I stood in a field next to a old rusted style barn full of sheep in the middle of this giant vast green field with great mountains and hills to be seen and perfect wisped clouds in a deep blue sky. To my right I stood with me a stranger in life, but in my dream I felt so close to this individual as though in my dream I knew her and in this dream world and dream world only I have always knew but her. I also realized I didn't recognize her face and couldn't picture her facial features as clearly as I wished I had. She told me to leave and to go with her and that she had to leave and wanted me to go with her in my dream I felt very attached to this person and when I woke I actually missed this person and felt like I had been in love with her all my life since the second I had been born and this isn't the first time this has happened...It seems I am always re-remembering and rediscovering her in my dreams. Sometimes months will go by before I dream of her again, but it seems like each time we continuee right where we left of the time before. Is it possible I'm reaching out to my soulmate in my dreams? She always seems to surprise me in my dreams and I feel like she is welcoming me back all the time and into her arms I lay for the rest of my dreams. Please sombody..tell me what to think as this confuses me. Has this ever happend to anyone else before? Have you fallin in love in a dream? I feel like I have known this girl all my life and that she definatly knows me. She calls my name all the time and I also get a sense and feeling of "I've been waiting for you"..like she waits for me to dream to just see me.. Can someone help me make sense of this?

[poog]

This is an excerpt from my own dream journal... "We were high high up in a tree. Kind of like the Deku Tree from WindWaker. Anyways, I remember there were three of us and a man in his fifties. The three of us had volunteered for this experiment. We had no idea what it would do. He asked us to lay down and that he would give us a shot near our hip. The other guy went first leaving me and the girl to look out at the stars. As we were looking out she sort of whipsered, "Beautiful, isn't it?" And I instantly fell in love with her. She smiled at me as she layed down for the shot. After her I took my turn. The dream then shifted to a dusty canyon. Above us was a bridge, and directly in front of us was a cave entrance. I looked at her and was shocked. The shots that man had injected into us had changed us into a different person. She was now some guy, and I was some guy, and the other guy was some girl. I was quite confuzzled about this when men on huge horses burst out from the cave. That was all I could remember, I'm not sure whether we were supposed to stop the horsemen or just distract them. Who knows. But hopefully I get to meet that girl again in my dreams." The feeling was wonderful, and I would love to meet her again.

[euphoria_]

Possibly your soul mate and partner of past lives.

[Astral_Arielle]

My boyfriend said he had dreams where a girl who looks just like me that would fill in the "Random Girlfriend" spot. A lot of the time I feel like we were made for each other. Unfortunately, I've never had a previous encounter with anyone who looks like him in my dreams.

[euphoria_]

I've had dreams about this girl from my school but I don't really know her, although I feel a very strong connection and attraction to her....guess it wouldn't hurt talking to her.

[iank]

I often dream about the same girl. At least 80% of the time when I can actually remember what I've dreamt, she's in it for some reason. No lucids yet, though...

[Everlong]

While I often dream about falling in love with a dream girl, I am always cautious not to obsess about it, otherwise it instills a greater want to be with someone who may not have ever existed. Most of my love dreams happen with people at my school, and it can be very random, I can often have a dream about a girl I hardly know, or even hate, and it affects how I think about them.

[Lëzen]

Had a strange yet very interesting dream where I was reunited with a girl who, in the dream, was supposed to be my best childhood friend. I don't think I was in love with her so much as feeling a really strong affection for her...like one of those "I may not have romantic feelings for you but I'd still take a thousand bullets for you" relationships. I'd apparently moved away as a child, thus leaving her alone and hurting her very deeply, so needless to say, when we were reunited, she was very cross with me and I felt the worst wave of guilt wash over me. The feeling stuck with me for a while after waking up. I hope to encounter her again in a LD...

[capoopy]

In one of my dreams, I saved a girl named Nicol (definately how it was spelled) and I didnt feel much of a connection to her but heres the interesting part... There was this girl in my spanish class and I had never seen her before and she was kinda cute and all. I called her Nicol in my head but I had never talked to her. Crazy part was I found out he name WAS Nicole, and I was like whoa. But now I dont feel anything special for her.

[WTGDMan1986]

Saturday: I was playing a driving arcade game at a bowling alley, winning 1st place when all of a sudden blocking my view is this alluring young woman in her 20s with blue eyes and brown hair, about 5'7", a petit build, and nothing wrong with her. Sunday: All I could think about is that someone was going to win $1,000,000 on the U.S. Wheel of Fortune in its 26th season (that episode airs tomorrow night), so I got a dream about the young woman from the arcade game dream, but this time...she and several other people (some were in their 20s like her) were in a YouTube-like clip. In both of these dreams, I didn't even ask for her name. Could this be someone I would be introduced to? Even today, the thoughts of the two back-to-back dreams I had are still with me.

[moth42]

I had a dream once about a girl who I saved from a dinosaur, a raptor I believe and we were escaping from a building alot like my old middle school. I broke my leg on the way out so she helped me walk for what seemed like miles. After we finally found a safe spot we layed down and we just kinda stared at eachother for a while and I fell completely in love with her. When I woke up and relised that it was all a dream I got utterly depressed . Still to this day I've never felt that way about anyone and now I can't even remember her face. All I remember about her was her long, strait, beautiful black hair. Great now I'm sad again.

[djinternet]

Why don't you control your dream by sleep programming to see her everynight? As you know, the dream is innocent, so we dreamers, must become like a child to enter there and do what we will there. Try this sleep programming technique out for size: Say this outloud before you goto sleep tonight: "I WISH TO MEET THE GIRL THAT CALLS OUT TO ME IN MY DREAMS." Then go to sleep, you will get a dream of that girl tonight - see how your dream control via sleep programming can answer all the questions you have in you heart. Good luck and sweet dreams.

[preacher247]

I've had a few dreams before where a girl would be in the dream and it always felt like I've known her forever and she always looks kind of the same she is white skinned, brown hair down to her shoulders , slim , about 5 " 6 in height, blue eyes. the last time i vividly remember meeting her was a while ago in a dream and we were on top of what looked like the roman coliseum but it wasn't in pristine shape it was a bit broken down. and she was sitting down on a ledge and i was standing up talking to her saying this is really hard and that i didn't think that it would be this hard and she was saying don't worry you can do it. Its going to be OK and she said you said you could do it before you left so whats changed and i said i weren't expecting this tho and then i went down and sat next to her and held her hand and she put my head on her shoulder and then the whole scene changed and we were in a cabin (like a wooden cabin) and there was an open fire place and all the things you would usually see in a cabin and there was even a picture of us( i cant remember where we were or what i looked like in it i just knew it was me and her) and we were just laying on the settee like you would with your partner. and i remember saying what are you going to do and she said I'll just wait here for you ? and i remember saying i don't want to leave you and her saying you have to for now and then we just layed down for a while and the next thing i know i woke up my bed and thought woah what was that, that felt so real this was a couple years ago i had that dream and also when we were at the coliseum she was wearing a long white dress with a silver thing on her arm and then when we were at the cabin she was wearing a white jumper and jeans and she changed her hair colour to blonde but i knew it was her. and also she had a see through aura around her. this dream was really profound for me i find my self looking for her in are realm not consciously but i know i am it was a very weird dream and she keeps popping up in my dreams. oh another thing i was quite stressed around the time i had the coliseum dream. i also think this could be why i have never had a relationship that lasted that long because i am looking for this girl and my soul knows it to and wont just settle for any body. googled the coliseum and this is a picture i found as soon as i saw it i was like that's exactly the same this a picture of what it looked like in that dream it looked same and i've never seen picture of it before we were up on that bit near the top right of the picture

[magical mike]

I had one last night infact!

[heumy]

While I can't accurately relate to your strong feelings of love and connection, I have had somewhat similar experiences in dreams, and the disappointment upon waking is horrible.

[Barefooted Student]

I don't know that I have had that experience, but I am sure it is a huge disappointment. My theory is that in dreams, we all know that our emotions are much much more powerful than in real life. The reason for this as I believe to be, is probably because our right brain (creative/emotions) is at work, while our left (logical) is asleep. Therefore we indulge completely 100% in our emotions at night, thus anything, any experience can be made unforgettable. Just my thoughts.

[Placebo]

I've had exactly the same experience, without the barn, etc In mine, I also felt like I knew the girl for a long time, fallen in love with her, met her family. In fact, the dream felt like a few weeks at least (with history of the girl excluded) and I began to wonder if the girl really existed somewhere. I spent a large portion of the dream crying, because I was lucid and didn't want to lose her. And I woke up feeling incredibly emotional .. and still not sure what to make of the feelings Fascinating, but ultimately disturbing :/ Unfortunately I don't have the answers either

[Wolfsbane]

That's very sweet & romantic. Have you tried asking her name? I remember my ex-bf told me about a girl (who was not me) in his dreams a couple times... Said he felt like he'd known her forever, and talked about her romantically. Reeeaaal tactful of him. I don't think I've ever had a dream about someone, but there's a couple people I've seen in real life who I feel a connection to. Once before going into a bank, I felt the urge to look to the other side of the street. I saw a blond girl walking a dog, and I felt a romantic attraction to her. We made eye contact and stared for a minute or two, and in that moment I knew she was a lesbian. Unfortunately I was too chicken to talk to her. I get the feeling that I'll run into her again, though.