Big Girl Troublez! Need expert help

**Matty323** · 11-23-2008 01:04 PM

I signed up here in hope i will get a faster response than other sites i have tried.

First a little background

I grew up in the same street with this girl. I hung out with her bro and become good friends with him and shortly after i fell for his sister T big time. i started hanging out with her alot in my childhood but then things changed. As i got older her bro stopped letting her hang out with him and it was then awkward for me to hang out with her, i should have done something about it but i didnt. I was sure this girl was the one and that i loved her! About 2 years after i started comp i fell for this other girl A who was v charming, v good looking, seemed flawless! Sher really complicated things. I knew A liked me because she would always look at me and i finally found the nerve to talk to her. We became gd friends and i hung out alot with her. After hanging out with her alot i began to see flaws and it made me realize how much i loved t. After a long time of wondering who was the 1 for me (i was convinced it was t but this girl A would always put doubts in my mind) i had finally realized that t was the 1 for me in my mind and i was gonna do everything to make her mine! We are meant to be i just know it.

Now i have realized who i want about a week later i have a dream.

Dream

I am in a supermarket and i see A and in the dream i end up kissing her and in the background a song starts playing. It is Brian McKnights Your like a dream come true. I checked the lyrics http://www.lyrics007.com/Brian%20McKnig ... yrics.html. It seems pretty clear what the message is here. It seems like i am being told that A is in fact the 1 for me and i got it all wrong. I went in denial for a few days, trying to make excuses but last night i had another dream.

Dream 2

I am in my house with a few friends and family and A is here. She goes out the garden to lie down or something so i make up a reason to follow her. I sit a bit behind her not to make too obvious. A bit later she walks in house and on way back out she says to me why you reading a girls mag for the pics is it? I say i want to find out what girls like (laughing)... and for the pics of course. Then she walks over to me, leans over and slowly kisses me on the cheek and smiles. She then says you will have to compare who kisses the best me or T then walks off. Then i wake with Brian McKnights your like a dream come true playing in my head again!

Now i am not in denial anymore i am now thinking that i may have got it all wrong, what i thought i knew for so long was not true, i actually want A and she is the 1 i am meant to be with. So confused!!! This is very hard to digest if it turns out to be true. i was so sure! I hope this dream means something else but i dont see how it can, the words in the song say it all.

Need expert help badly. Plz respond.

**Noin** · 11-23-2008 02:11 PM

Basically you're asking if you can believe what the dream tells you? (Staying with A that is)? or is it something else

**roland3tr** · 11-23-2008 02:29 PM

I'm not an expert but it seems that you are more physically attracted to A. Well what I recommend is do not make serious meanings out of your dreams. Because they might be tricky. I mean what if the song was a warning telling you the A is wrong everytime you kissed her ? Our subconscious is way more complicated that your dream interpretation.

**Matty323** · 11-23-2008 07:48 PM

Originally Posted by Noin

Basically you're asking if you can believe what the dream tells you? (Staying with A that is)? or is it something else

I am hoping that someone will tell me that this dream doesnt mean that i want to be with A. I just know we are made for eachother (T), why the f*** is my sc telling me that i want her for???? I want T and no 1 else! Perhaps hes trying to screw my head up or something. Or perhaps he is trying to correct me? IDK.

**WakataDreamer** · 11-23-2008 08:08 PM

Your sc can't tell you what to do. It's entirely up to you. Your sc can't see the future, it has no way of actually knowing if A would be better for you than T.

Don't worry, they're just dreams, the choice is still yours.

**Matty323** · 11-23-2008 08:10 PM

Originally Posted by roland3tr

I'm not an expert but it seems that you are more physically attracted to A. Well what I recommend is do not make serious meanings out of your dreams. Because they might be tricky. I mean what if the song was a warning telling you the A is wrong everytime you kissed her ? Our subconscious is way more complicated that your dream interpretation.

Yes i am alot more attracted to A. With A i think about the physical side of things alot but with T very rarely. Yeh but how can it mean it is wrong if that song comes on. If it was wrong why not put on a song that indicates that like stay the f*** away from that bitch or something. Some of the lyrics here of the dream song.

ITS UNDENIABLE THAT WE SHOULD BE TOGETHER
JUST WANNA BE WITH YOU
GIRL ITS PLAIN TO SEE YOUR THE ONLY 1 FOR ME

WTF else could that mean? it seems crystal clear what the message is.

I mean we would be really gd together, (A) we have this strong connection, people always tell me we would be great together and if it wasnt for T it would be no doubt i would want her! but with me and T its hard to explain, i just know we are meant for eachother! some of you will think stfu but im sure some of you know exactly what im talking about.

This has been really p****** me off, all day i have been picturing how life would be with A and before i couldnt picture us for life you know, but now all of a sudden i can, im just so f****** confused and messed up right now, if it was 1 thing i was sure of it was that me and T were meant to be together but now ???????????

**Matty323** · 11-23-2008 08:15 PM

Originally Posted by WakataDreamer

Your sc can't tell you what to do. It's entirely up to you. Your sc can't see the future, it has no way of actually knowing if A would be better for you than T.

Don't worry, they're just dreams, the choice is still yours.

As much as i want to believe you your sc knows your feelings better than you, so if ny1 knows how you feel its your sc, and have you heard of prophetic dreams. I have had a few myself.

Thanks for trying to make me feel better tho.

**Matty323** · 11-23-2008 08:22 PM

Originally Posted by roland3tr

I'm not an expert but it seems that you are more physically attracted to A. Well what I recommend is do not make serious meanings out of your dreams. Because they might be tricky. I mean what if the song was a warning telling you the A is wrong everytime you kissed her ? Our subconscious is way more complicated that your dream interpretation.

Yes i am alot more attracted to A. With A i think about the physical side of things alot but with T very rarely. Yeh but how can it mean it is wrong if that song comes on. If it was wrong why not put on a song that indicates that like stay the f*** away from that bitch or something. Some of the lyrics here of the dream song.

ITS UNDENIABLE THAT WE SHOULD BE TOGETHER
JUST WANNA BE WITH YOU
GIRL ITS PLAIN TO SEE YOUR THE ONLY 1 FOR ME

WTF else could that mean? it seems crystal clear what the message is.

I mean we would be really gd together, (A) we have this strong connection, people always tell me we would be great together and if it wasnt for T it would be no doubt i would want her! but with me and T its hard to explain, i just know we are meant for eachother! some of you will think stfu but im sure some of you know exactly what im talking about.

This has been really p****** me off, all day i have been picturing how life would be with A and before i couldnt picture us for life you know, but now all of a sudden i can, im just so f****** confused and messed up right now, if it was 1 thing i was sure of it was that me and T were meant to be together but now ???????????

**Matty323** · 11-24-2008 01:19 AM

Originally Posted by roland3tr

I mean what if the song was a warning telling you the A is wrong everytime you kissed her ? Our subconscious is way more complicated that your dream interpretation.

I get what you mean now.

Whenever i kiss her that song comes on, and it could be saying after we kiss its plain to see that she isnt the 1 i want the other 1 is. That she is wrong for me.

It must be that.

**roland3tr** · 11-24-2008 12:43 PM

The point is do not decide what to do by interpreting your dreams.

**Matty323** · 11-24-2008 05:52 PM

Originally Posted by roland3tr

The point is do not decide what to do by interpreting your dreams.

Your right.

It obviously meant something anyway else because i just know i am meant for T and not A.

**maxy126** · 11-25-2008 08:19 PM

Wow awesome dreams

mine are all action which can get a bit boring but yeah listen to ure heart i guess weigh up the good and bad about "A" and "t" and see the result good luck hoped i helped...

**Brandon Heat** · 11-25-2008 08:26 PM

Experts, and all replies are from people of 2008....lulz.

**roland3tr** · 11-25-2008 10:35 PM

Does it make any difference ?

**Matty323** · 11-25-2008 11:12 PM

Originally Posted by maxy126

Wow awesome dreams

mine are all action which can get a bit boring but yeah listen to ure heart i guess weigh up the good and bad about "A" and "t" and see the result good luck hoped i helped...

Thanks Maxy. I have been thinking bout this like 24/7 for the last few days! i have been imagining what it would be like with both and when i am with A something feels very wrong and that something is the person i am with aint T. When i am with T it feels so right! I def want T. I dont know what the dreams were about but i dont care. I know i want T over A, and over anyone, and thats all that matters.

**OrionStyles** · 11-29-2008 05:57 AM

OK, so on a Lucid Dreaming forum you asked what choice you should make? Clearly you need to become an expert LDer and pick both of them. Duh.

**Kreature** · 11-29-2008 10:11 AM

Originally Posted by OrionStyles

OK, so on a Lucid Dreaming forum you asked what choice you should make? Clearly you need to become an expert LDer and pick both of them. Duh.

I vote that!

Anyway, don't use your dreams to decide who to be with. Thats just bad reasoning. In your dreams, you could survive being shot 100x over, but isn't some magical sign that you should attempt something dangerous because you didn't die or get hurt in your dreams.

Edit If It matters, I first joined this board in 05 (on my first account), so I think I'm experienced

**Matty323** · 11-30-2008 05:24 PM

Originally Posted by OrionStyles

OK, so on a Lucid Dreaming forum you asked what choice you should make? Clearly you need to become an expert LDer and pick both of them. Duh.

LOL.

**Matty323** · 11-30-2008 05:27 PM

Originally Posted by Kreature

I vote that!

Anyway, don't use your dreams to decide who to be with. Thats just bad reasoning. In your dreams, you could survive being shot 100x over, but isn't some magical sign that you should attempt something dangerous because you didn't die or get hurt in your dreams.

Edit If It matters, I first joined this board in 05 (on my first account), so I think I'm experienced

Thx. Im ok now anyway i know 100% certain who i want, whatever it meant it wasnt that i wanted A, and if it was then it was lying.

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