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      Dark Animus - A returning nightmare

      I've been lucid dreaming for a few weeks and have managed to attain lucidity three times. The limitless possibilities that are achievable in our dreams have opened a whole new world to me and I've started to talk to my friends about being lucid and dreaming in general. One friend in particular came to me and asked if i could help her with a problem she has, she told me of a dark male figure that appears regularly in her dreams and a reoccurring nightmare that happens almost every night. I assumed immediately the dark figure was a animus she told me he was sort of an ultimate partner if you like and is always there when she needs help. The nightmare however she described that this animus becomes severely sinister. The dark figure is constantly at her side it takes away everyone who tries to get close to her and drains away all the colour and makes it cold and lonely. She is powerless to stop him and she tries to kill her self but he always stops her this continues until she wakes up sweating and often crying. I'm no psychology major it's merely a interest of mine so I'm not entirely sure how i can help her. I know lucid dreaming can be used to combat nightmares but this seems pretty extreme to me. Please is there anyone here with some advance training in the area that has some advice for her and I?
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      I would tell her to try and talk to the man. Maybe if she asks it what it is and why it does what it does, then it would make it seem less malevolent.

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      Be confident. Accept how you feel. Accept her the way she is. After all can't we offer much more support when we make the most out of ourselves?

      Also wait for her to ask for help if she hasn't. Let her have her own process. She obviously had the dream and remembered it. If she created the dream, remembered the dream and shared the dream then she has enough bravery to unravel its meaning.

      If she has asked for help then ask her what she wants help with. Let her exercise initiative for if we simply & clearly define our wants then the hand of providence will move.

      One of my favorite ways to work with anothers dream is to start my addressing their dream as if it were my dream it would mean....

      Good luck & Happy Trails
      Thought plus emotion creates attitude. Attitude plus action creates experience and experience determines reality

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