love after dreams

[deanmullen10]

I know people are probably sick of Love posts but there very interesting cause I myself after having a dream about falling in love with a girl in my school the next day I was so in love with her like never before, Is this mainly cause your dream shows you an example of it, then your instincts want more?

[Moonsong]

I used to get that way all the time. Whenever I experienced it, it was mostly the experience of having an extremely personal encounter with someone that made me appreciate them more in the waking life. The girl in the dream would typically go through some tumultuous event and I would be there for them, and then I would wake up with a deep and new-found connection with them. They always faded for me though.

[legendaryjordan]

Yeah you just hit the nail on the head there Dean.

[Conkt]

I had a dream last year in which I got married to a girl in one of my classes. The next day I almost put my arm around her and moved in to kiss her when I realized that that was only a dream, and saved by yawning . I wasn't madly in love with her, but the emotions lingered.

[Waking]

Freud believed that dreaming was a "safety valve" for unconscious desires. You should become more extroverted around that person, its obvious you feel something for her/him. Dreams are a combination of memory and aspiration, you decide which one you think that the emotional tie is pulled from. Hope this helped

[Jaymun]

For me, after a dream I think I just kind of realize my feelings for the person. Someone that I've talked to, or noticed, without thinking about a lot, then I have a dream about them, I feel like I'm in love that morning, it fades a little, but then I start to notice the person a lot more, and start to fall for them. The feeling when you first wake up is great, before you realize it was a dream...

[deanmullen10]

just 2 add this I just had 1 of these dreams last night but it was about a strange, i forgot 2 add does it also usually be about a stranger whom you fall in love with.

[Elastic Onion]

For the past week now I've had dreams like that every night. Falling in love with a stranger and whatnot. It's really starting to bug me, because she keeps changing on me. It's the same personality, but she always looks different. Every night, about 5 nights in a row, my dreams will be going on as usual, random dream stuff going on, and somehow, all of the events will line up perfectly to where at the end, it's just me and her. I don't think my dreams have ever been so orderly and coherent. Last night I dreamt I was at a party. There were a couple people I knew, and more people that I didn't. Mostly guys, and a few girls that I didn't know. I started talking to one of them, but I lost interest as she just wasn't my type. In retrospect, I'm pretty sure it was my ex. Anyway, There were two other girls, one of which had short black hair. I didn't talk to her I don't think, as I was kinda nervous. Then, after spending what felt like forever at the party, people started leaving, and I guess the girl didn't have a ride home, and next thing I knew, we were in my car. We drove for a long time, got lost, had to turn around, but we talked the entire time. When we got to her house, we both got out, said bye, and proceeded to hug for at least a minute. Then I got in my car, and woke up. But that connection I felt, that feeling I felt upon waking, it felt so real... :/

[Molder]

I know what you mean. I've never fallen in love with anyone because of a dream I've had, but I've become infatuated for a day or two, yes. LOL, funny thing, I once dreamt about a girl from my school that I usually never talk to (and quite frankly am not that fond of) and she was really nice and gentle to me. She even caressed my arm, but that certainly didn't result in anything good. I completely freaked out, went to this friend of mine and actually told him that the girl was hijacking my dream. XD And I wasn't even lucid.