Thread: Inherited Lucid Dreaming

Originally Posted by AL3ZAY

If I told you at 5 years old about lucid dreaming, how much more effort would you have put into practicing it, versus if I had told you at 20 years old when you had a (hypothetical) clear-cut belief that dreaming was pointless, and control not possible, despite the truth that one can lucid dream? Children are highly receptive to learning in their first 5 years, more-so than adults. Children can learn multiple languages easier than an adult can, among other things. That's how you get child prodigies.

Obviously the information being taught has to be valid, but it can be grasped easily if you use the right method. Similar to "brainetics" or "your baby can read" methods of teaching kids to read and perform math in their head. My 5 year old cousin is rather skilled at Street Fighter IV after only 10 hours of teaching him the mechanics of the game the way you'd teach someone who wanted to go pro in the game. I have friends who have played with me for over a year and he is almost as good as them because he understands the game on a mechanics level based on what I taught him. Obviously he's not perfect and makes mistakes and mental mind games get the better of him at times, but he learns fast, and I've learned that's pretty common of children in general. They learn quickly if they are taught in a way that is engaging.

Now it may be the fact that I'm an adult confusing me here

The hinge of your argument is that adults come with a bag of beliefs that undermine their LDing, while a child doesn't. That's not a feature of being an adult- it's a feature of being close-minded. Sure- a kid won't dismiss LDing offhand. But they also believe in Harry Potter. Being an adult, however, gives you an advantage in the discipline and determination department. I'm not saying you couldn't teach a kid to LD, but I don't think they have a natural affinity for grasping concepts. In fact the lightning coming out of my hands is even more likely to make an adult do an RC than a child.

Originally Posted by KingYoshi

Just to throw this out there, I found out a couple months ago that my grandfather is a natural lucid dreamer. Me, my father, and I were watching Inception and I brought up lucid dreaming. My dad knows I am a lucid dreamer and he has had one himself basically from hearing me talk about it (which is understandable). What blew my mind, however, was my 72 year old grandpa joined in and I learned he had been naturally lucid dreaming all his life. Now, he didn't have them every night, but he said he has had around 5-10 a month ever since he can remember. Sooooo, its also possible that it skips a generation like so many other inherited traits. Just saying.

Everyone is a natural lucid dreamer. What would an 'unnatural lucid dream' be?

Originally Posted by Velzhaed

Now it may be the fact that I'm an adult confusing me here

The hinge of your argument is that adults come with a bag of beliefs that undermine their LDing, while a child doesn't. That's not a feature of being an adult- it's a feature of being close-minded. Sure- a kid won't dismiss LDing offhand. But they also believe in Harry Potter. Being an adult, however, gives you an advantage in the discipline and determination department. I'm not saying you couldn't teach a kid to LD, but I don't think they have a natural affinity for grasping concepts. In fact the lightning coming out of my hands is even more likely to make an adult do an RC than a child.

Adults come with a bag of experiences that shape their beliefs, while a child doesn't. I will agree that one has to have a degree of closed-mindedness to just dismiss LDing, but one can only be closed-minded if they are an adult, or near that status. Children are naturally curious and open minded, and yes they do believe everything, and that's why they need guidance. But, they can still be taught, and easily so long as you use the right method of teaching them. If they are infatuated with Harry Potter, well in their dreams they can do magic, and can adventure with Harry Potter if they wanted to. How much attention do you think you'd have from the kid if you told them that? Full attention. They'd want to know everything they had to do, what to look for, everything if it's true that they can experience it, and they will believe they can. It's a very common theme in this forum and among lucid dreamers that by going to bed believing you will lucid dream 100%, usually, that is the outcome. Things that we'd consider complex such as reality checking, is not too hard for a child if you give them an easy one to perform and remember such as holding their nostrils closed and trying to breathe through them. If you can, you're dreaming, if not, you're awake. A child engages their imagination more than an adult do they not? Dreaming experiences are highly based on your own imagination. A child's determination to adventure with Harry Potter will eclipse any adult determination just to lucid dream in the first place.

That's because children ARE open minded and curious. All children are like this starting out, and it's their parents and other adults that shape the beliefs and behaviors they display in a place like school.

If a child's mom tells them "dreaming doesn't exist", the child will believe that, and defend what his mom told him for forever and a day, because that's his mom and she has to be right. That's a belief being set in the curious child who had to ask a question to receive the response that shaped the belief in the first place. It's not that the child isn't naturally curious, it's that his curiosity has already been met with an answer from a trusted source of information, which creates the belief and removes the curiosity from that particular subject.

Originally Posted by AL3ZAY

If a child's mom tells them "dreaming doesn't exist", the child will believe that, and defend what his mom told him for forever and a day, because that's his mom and she has to be right.

You must have a very strange relationship with your parents. If my mother told me dreaming didn't exists I would not have believed her...because I had dreams. If what you're saying was true every child would have the same religious views as their parents. What age range are you talking about? It sounds like very young, but you used your 12 year old cousin to illustrate your point.

Originally Posted by Velzhaed

You must have a very strange relationship with your parents. If my mother told me dreaming didn't exists I would not have believed her...because I had dreams. If what you're saying was true every child would have the same religious views as their parents. What age range are you talking about? It sounds like very young, but you used your 12 year old cousin to illustrate your point.

Why would you imply I have a strange relationship with my parents based on a hypothetical example? Every child, from age 4 - 13 pretty much does have the same religious views as their parents. Show me a 6, 8, 10, or 12 year old who's got differing religious views from their parents based on knowledge they've gathered on their own. And I used my 5 year old cousin as an example, so I don't know what you mean by a 12 year old, as I never mentioned one.

Originally Posted by AL3ZAY

Why would you imply I have a strange relationship with my parents based on a hypothetical example? Every child, from age 4 - 13 pretty much does have the same religious views as their parents. Show me a 6, 8, 10, or 12 year old who's got differing religious views from their parents based on knowledge they've gathered on their own. And I used my 5 year old cousin as an example, so I don't know what you mean by a 12 year old, as I never mentioned one.

Apologies for that: 5 year old. But I don't think we're getting anywhere. I'm saying that as a 30 year old who has worked in the public school system I have a decent grasp of what children are capable of. You don't agree. I don't think everyone under 13 automatically believes everything their parents say. That's where my 'strange relationship' comment came from. Did you really just accept everything your parents said before you were 13? Were you home every day before dark so the strangers wouldn't take you home? Did you never lie cause they told you not to? Were you nice to everyone cause that's the Golden Rule? I can say from MY experience- No. Nor is that what I have seen.

I'll just agree to disagree. You want to say you're from a line of "natural" lucid dreams? Okay. The titles you give to yourself dont' effect me. It's not any worse than the Nomad crowd explaining how they battled off a dream-stalker with their totem katana.


...However I would like to point out that I come from a long line of werewolves. We were watching the Wolfman the other day and I said "Hey- I do that." And my dad was like "I've only done it a few times." But my grandpa was like "I do it 10-15 times a month." I guess werewolfyness skips a generation, like most made-up talents.