Sex in dreams, or lack of....

**Andromeda** · 05-24-2005 03:51 PM

ok... have any of you ever had any sex in your dreams? any sexual acts? i wonder this because everyone seems to wake up when it comesto the crunch.

**Alric** · 05-24-2005 05:15 PM

Yea that is true in most cases. Somes times I will wake up just after but normally I wake up before. This is just normal dreams too, it seems even harder in lucid dreams. I have no idea why that might be.

**SantaDreamsToo** · 05-24-2005 05:41 PM

well I did once do it without waking up, but usually I just have fun with the body as sick as that may seem

**Andromeda** · 05-28-2005 12:38 PM

ahaha! no its all good

i have no idea why its harder when youre luicd either! ive only ever had sex twice that i can remember in dr4eams and niether were lucid, but both were with people from my old school that i didnt even know very well!

**voidofform** · 05-29-2005 08:58 AM

being asexual, i don't have dreams involving sex. i never have, and i doubt i ever will. i didn't realize just how wierd that was until i came here.

**cybereality** · 05-29-2005 10:37 AM

I seem to have the same issue with sexual dreams. I will be lucid enough to initiate the contact but I wake up almost immediately. I have had sex once in a dream (a while ago) and it did feel pretty real. Other than that I always wake up right in the heat of the moment.

I think I figured out the reason for this. At least with myself, I usually close my eyes when I start to make out with a girl. Closing your eyes, as I'm sure you all know, is a sure-fire method for waking from a dream. So if you start having sex in a LD, make sure to KEEP YOUR EYES OPEN. I think this is the main reason for waking in this situation. Hope that helps.

< cybereality

**Andromeda** · 05-29-2005 06:46 PM

good explanation! yes indeed many of us close our eys when making out

im gonna keep my eyes open now even in real sex incase its a dream!

**nightowl** · 05-31-2005 01:14 AM

yes..i have..and i've never woken up either during it. I guess it helps to be a deep sleeper...

**infinity369** · 05-31-2005 03:59 PM

erm.....

i have loads of sex in my dreams, prob because i have a high sex drive and its not being fullfilled

but yeh i can maintain it, at first i found when i was lucid having it, i'd become non lucid because of having sex, but the hardest thing is....when ur having sex in a dream, the dc tends to morph into other things

so you have to put alot of effort into concentrating, and you nvr tend to get the full view of everythink.

as for maintaining, try to think of yourself nvr climaxing or that you must'nt

**SantaDreamsToo** · 05-31-2005 06:01 PM

morph

iv never had that problem

maybe its because your thinking about it? and I dont mean thinking like you want it

but that your thinking its gonna change thus looking at it

**bh26** · 06-06-2005 04:38 AM

I don't know ... I guess I have a weird little problem when I have sex in dreams. This is bad .... Sometimes, the other person will change in the middle of the act

Luckily, when this happens in my dreams I "usually" stop. I think the weirdest change that has ever occurred to me has been when the girl changed into a bird! Well, that's about all I'm going to say on this subject