I always wondered if actively searching for your dream guide was the right way to go about it. It made me wonder if it would be less "real". If I actively look for one, I might have preconceived ideas of what he/she is supposed to look like and be like, and cause me to create just another DC molding itself into what I want. I like the idea of them having a will of their own. So does that mean I shouldn't go trying to summon one? Should I just wait for one to find me? My best friend found hers that way. At first she thought it was an annoying DC because he kept getting in the way of her fun, and she seemed to have no power over him.... Then he eventually introduced himself to her. What do you guys think happens most of the time...and do you think trying to conjure yours makes it any less realistic?