Titles are only shown bold to you when you have not read a thread yet or there are new posts i believe.
Also I dont really think that the whisper thing would work.
I had success with DEILD technique after about 2 years of trying on and off but lots of people get results faster. Just always record your dreams in a dream journal and dont get lazy and forget or else it wont work as effectivley. Imporve your recall so you can remember atleast one dream a night and then just keep practicing techniques. Improve your awarness by noticing everything around you in waking life (then you may notice things dont seem right in a dream) and try to practice RC's but dont do it mindlessly.
If you do DEILD or WBTB you need to try to time your alarm for when your in a REM cycle or else it wont be as effective.

You dont have to make three posts it just makes people think your trying to constantly bump your thread theres an edit button.