Thread: For some reason I am treated differently by girls after having had lucid dreams involving girls

Originally Posted by Yuusha

Yes, I try to not think about it too much.
My concern was mostly that since those people are probably not familiar with lucid dreaming (which is pretty common xD) they will probably think I am a bizarre person if I managed to improve so much that it seemed unnatural to them, and this would probably give me some problems socializing with them as well, although it doesn't seem to be any major problem so far, but still...

I know that I would probably feel a little confused if an extremely quiet and fairly insecure person suddenly showed up a couple weeks later and was the complete opposite, talked cheerfully to everyone etc.
I would probably even go so far as to assume that the person was under the influence of drugs or something, even though I am personally familiar with how life-changing lucid dreams can be - I think it is possible to change a lot from lucid dreams alone in just a couple weeks if you get plenty of opportunities to practice in them - and I would prefer to not look like a complete weirdo to people who have got used to another side of myself.

It can sometimes be fun to confuse people this way, though.

This can be a real sticking point for people trying to change. They feel trapped by other peoples perception of them, locked into one way of being. Truth is, they will notice the change at first, but if you are consistent about it then they will quickly change their perception of you to fit your behavior. It will become the norm.