the whole "secert" concept is actually partially covered by another theory (a real one)

its called the complication theory. it states that when you take action to prevent something its often just as likely or more likely to occur. Hows that work? well... lets say you dont want your bike stolen so you buy a bike lock. then because you think that your bike is safe due to the lock, you leave it in a really stupid place and it gets stolen.

also, another thing that makes this look real is my own theory....

"if you feel, think and act like you belong, you will be accepted as belonging."