Sympathy for a DC

[psil-ur-cybin]

Hey I'm new-ish to DV and haven't really posted much...so Hi! I've only ever had a few LD's and can never seem to control my dreams at all...anyway... last night I had a dream that I was a in an elevator and all i could see was a guy and the back wall of the elevator. I became lucid and was just talking to the guy for awhile..everything he said seemed new to me, like it wasnt shit that i would have already known. Then the elevator starts to falls really fast and the guy looks real worried. I keep saying to him that its cool, that I'm just dreaming and none of this is real, that we wont really die. Then he looks at me and says 'But when this elevator falls you'll never dream of me again and isn't that the same as me being dead?" just before the elevator hit the ground I woke up and had that feeling that i was still falling for about 90secs. The strangest thing was though, that when i woke up i kinda felt sorry for the guy in my dream cause he looked terrified of dying. has anyone else felt like that before?

[Adrenaline Junkie]

Hey, and I once had a dream in which i became sort of attached to a DC and woke up feeling bad that i couldn't remember the face of the DC because that would mean i'd never see that DC again. But to be honest its nothing to worry about, we all have those sort of dreams at some point, DC's are just us technically because after all it is a representation of our mind.

[dreamscaper22]

welcome....Dcs come and go, its so hard to remember them too, when i was younger there was a DC that i got attached and i never got see her again but i got over it.... i felt bad she was in a few dreams and then she just up and stop appearing...

[conisag]

Hey, suggestion, why dont you meet the guy again you wont feel so bad and if you feel bad next time a dc is going to die or gets worried or whatever remind them that you can bring them back to life.

[Adrenaline Junkie]

If your feeling strongly about this DC maybe your should meet him again like conisag said, but its best not to get too attached to dream characters because at the end of the day they are only a creation of your mind.

[The Question]

I would feel bad also! I would try to meet this DC again so you can feel better about the event.

[pyroguy305]

I had this dream (non lucid) where I was flirting with this gorgeous girl... playing with her hair and awkwardly holding her hand like back in high school, and I remember staring in her eyes.. When I woke up I was completely heartbroken to learn that she was not real...

[Jeff777]

Hey I'm new-ish to DV and haven't really posted much...so Hi! I've only ever had a few LD's and can never seem to control my dreams at all...anyway... last night I had a dream that I was a in an elevator and all i could see was a guy and the back wall of the elevator. I became lucid and was just talking to the guy for awhile..everything he said seemed new to me, like it wasnt shit that i would have already known. Then the elevator starts to falls really fast and the guy looks real worried. I keep saying to him that its cool, that I'm just dreaming and none of this is real, that we wont really die. Then he looks at me and says 'But when this elevator falls you'll never dream of me again and isn't that the same as me being dead?" just before the elevator hit the ground I woke up and had that feeling that i was still falling for about 90secs. The strangest thing was though, that when i woke up i kinda felt sorry for the guy in my dream cause he looked terrified of dying. has anyone else felt like that before? I know how you feel man, I think you should look at this...put your head down and light a lighter and wave it in the air from side to side while this plays...http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8b3mftcV0dY

[The Question]

I know how you feel man, I think you should look at this...put your head down and light a lighter and wave it in the air from side to side while this plays...http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8b3mftcV0dY L O L

[Sugarglider11]

there is nothing to worry about, the dc is just you, its made by your mind, but you can see him again if you want, it may make you feel better.

[Torcher]

I met Ozzy Osbourne last night as a DC and he could actually speak really well, so I felt good for him for once. There are some DCs I wish I could meet again. I know what you mean. There are some that I have hurt, like hit-in-the-face-with-a-metal-rod hurt, by accident, and I felt terrible about it, sometimes even after I woke up, because I'm asking myself if the dream symbolizes me in any way.

[Pancaka]

What that dc said was really moving...my god that's sad.

[peppy]

Well if DC's are a creation of your mind it doesn't really matter does it... but I still vote go give him a visit.