I have not stoppedf trying i still go to bed with the intention of becoming lucid, just no reaity checks. This has also happened a few times before when i have stopped reality checks. So this definetely seems to work better for me, probably because when i am doing reality checks i am stressing out about am i taking the reality check seriously enough, am i doing enough reality checks, what if they don't incorparat into my dream etc. But this way i am competely relaxed and i have an ultra confidence that i can have lucids nearly at will because before i could using this approach so why i changed the approach i don't know.