I didn't mean that LDs were going to be a crutch for all who use them, I said only that some people seek to escape real life and the psychological and other issues by sleeping and dreaming as much as possible. Sometimes the dream life is far better than the real life and they just want to get away from the real stuff as much as possible.

I read in the LaBerge book that if your dream life is so good and real life is so bad that you should take what you are doing in your dreams and take steps to make your real life more like your dream life. Actually its possible I read that somewhere else, who knows...