Thread: Frighted to have an LD...

Originally Posted by StrangeDreamsGuy

Thanks, I hope that it really is easy to make things not scary. I feel like I'm far too worked up, so I'm going to go to bed soon, while my parents are still awake in their room, so that I can feel more secure, as opposed to going to bed at 1 A.M. like I normally do.
This lucid dreaming is like a whole new world that I missed out on for my whole life until yesterday

That is also what I do. Go to bed before the last person in your house to feel more secure. But really it is a delightful experience to do w/e you want in a dream. If you do have sex in your dream (which I usually do) your lucid dreams are cut short (atleast for me) and end when you "finish up" and you either wake up or your dream ends while you still sleep. That's just me but I read other people waking up after doing the same thing.

[Sexual Content Ahead!] Lol
Being a teenage boy, when I had my first clear lucid dream 2 days ago, I immediately considered sex, and JUST as me and 2 women were about to get better aquainted, I thought "What if I do something in real life because of this" and then I kind of fazed out of the dream, to my incredible disappointment (I had almost lost my virginity in a sense )
I immediately googled "knowing that you're in a dream" and came here, in pursuit of future endeavors

I'm not a pervert, but who would pass up the opportunity? (The dream was going in that direction, and I just followed one of the characters)

Anyway I'm off to bed, thanks and wish me luck!

I have to admit, in my first LD I ran to my crush's house to... you know. Unfortunately, I was attacked by a zombie version of my best friend with a chainsaw... I had better luck the second time.
I often think before I have dream sex with someone "Oh crap, what if this isn't a dream at all!" Then I usually lose lucidity or wake up. And I also wake up when I finish, though I've read some people's posts that say they don't, and some have hundreds of (dream) orgasms in a single dream. I guess all it takes is practice.

There's nothing to be scared of, remember, you are in control. It is YOUR dream.

I don't even remember being afraid in my dreams, normal or LD after I started to LD. you might fee a bit spooky first but I think curiosity will overcome your possible fear

If you are having a LD and find yourself in a frightening situation, just control yourself to act in such a way to conquer the frightening aspect. A simpler route would be to try dream spinning (literally, spinning one's body around in the dream), focusing on a new location while spinning. The idea is that when you stop spinning, you will find yourself in the new unfrightening situation. As far as the sex aspect goes, you're not a pervert at all. There is increased blood flow to the genitals during dream sequences, so sexual dream content is very common.

Well last night I couldn't fall asleep, but tonight I'm going to bed pretty late and I'm setting my alarm and stuff, going to try FILD.