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    1. 01-17-2010 06:39 PM #1
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      Unhappy After breakup

      I just woke up from a dream after I just broken up with my now ex-gf and she was in it..

      But it starts off:
      We are sitting on the couch watching tv.. Ignoring each other.. I think we are angry at each other for some reason.. We just going about I usual ignoring each other phase Im on the computer and shes on here phone.. When I notice my big brother is on the couch with us as well.. But he is paying attn to the TV.. I look over at him and I get a glanced at her phone she on some website.. And her friend back home says "Just tell him she's a lesbian.. And she responds back lol.." So I ignore cause I wasnt suppose to see it anyway.. I start talking to my brother.. I forgot about what.. But then in the middle of it she kisses me and I kiss her back.. But then I start crying while we are kissing..When I realize my brother is here and what he just seen and he is shocked.. But then again I feel a sense of relief and I no longer care..


      Now am I having this dream cause we just broke up.. And I guess I must also let everyone know.. I haven't really came out to all of my family.. But my big brother already knows that I am attracted to girls.. So why would he need to be told about my sexuality when in reality he already knows..

      Just a dream I had.. Please answer if you know whats going.. Kinda made me sad again.. Cause I really loved her and ended over something stupid..
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    2. 01-17-2010 07:03 PM #2
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      Hello and welcome, Confused!
      Dreaming of things that affected you emotionnally is common and normal. Don't look too deep in there, dreams reflect what's happened to you more than they "predict" anything.
      As you say yourself in your last line, you're not over it, and it shows in your dream. And since you seem to think that breaking up wasn't the smart thing to do, your subconscious is harassing you with reminders of her, probably to ask you to rethink the question.
      Are you still in touch with her?
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    3. 01-17-2010 07:17 PM #3
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      Yea I am.. But I told her she would never hear from me again.. So its kinda pointless going back on it.. Besides she would just ignore my texts and phone calls anyway.. She good at that..
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    4. 01-17-2010 07:20 PM #4
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      Just when I got finished writing this and laid down and cried.. She wrote on my facebook status.. So maybe I can get her to talk to me
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      If you're the one who did the break up, then there's no reason to believe that, prior to it, she didn't want to be with you anymore. You probably hurt her, but there's still a chance to be forgiven if you act and tell her you regret your gesture.
      Don't stick to words. Do stuff. Go there and talk to her, send her flowers, something that'll impress her and show her you're willing to make an effort to win her trust back.
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    6. 01-28-2010 09:45 AM #6
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      Thanxs.. We talked workd everything out.. She finally opened up to me how she feels and vice versa.. And we are working everything out.. We pretty much wiped everything that was said that night all out of our lives and are tryna start something more real.. So we're back to the way we were.. Loving each other more and more everyday and missin each other more and more every time we spend it away from each other.. LOL.. Thanxs tho.. I was really down that mornin and that dream bothered me that day..

      LOL.. This is not a relationship help forum I know..
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    7. 01-30-2010 01:32 AM #7
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      Quote Originally Posted by ConfusedLilGuh View Post

      LOL.. This is not a relationship help forum I know..
      Just to let you know, there is a Help Forum here on Dream Views, where you can ask for help with personal problems, including relationships.

      Congrats with getting back together with the gf.
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