Hi!

Welcome to DV! I'm happy you are getting into this.

I recommend you to visit our tutorials. DILD is hard to come out without practice unless you are natural (so basically until you learned about LDing)

To get started, you can start a dream journal and write down everything you can recall from any of your dreams. Even if its 4am!

Second, you can do reality checks while awake. Look around and consider if you are dreaming or not, try to read something, makes sense? Look around and focus on what you are doing? Does everything makes sense to you? If not, you are dreaming. Get used to do this several times a day, sounds silly, but then you will get use to it and you will do this in your dreams. You might realize that a pink dog peeing over a flower with three faces makes no sense and you will become lucid.

Do not try to fly or go insane once you get lucidity or you will wake up, specially on your very firsts lucids.

I would give you a key, but I need to make more sorry! As soon as I make more I'll let you know.