I'm not sure if you have had any Ld's yet or not but beleive me when you start having them you won't want to stop having them no matter if anyone ever replys to your posts or not. When I was a beginner I'm not sure if there was a lucid dreaming forums but I read everyday on the subject and that was enough to get me having them. Plus I couldn't really talk much about it to friends or family because nobody I know is interested in it at all. So be happy that you have an option of being able to get on-line and being able to discuss Ld'ing with like minded people. I would help you on a one to one basis but I'm looking for someone that is more advanced than me to help me out with Astral projection more.
Hope you get the answers you're looking for. If you have any direct questions PM me and I'll try to help you as much as I can. This is a pretty big forum so I can't always read all the posts but if you make a post and then PM me the same post I'll get it for sure. Plus I don't have msn messenger at the time.