Problem #1 : It just seems like my entire dream is just a dreamsign, and there's nothing weird to realize and say "hey, am I dreaming?", because my entire dream is weird. I don't turn on lights or look at clocks or wake up in the morning in my dreams, I just do things like fight Star Wars characters and just appear in unknown places. How can I recognize a dreamsign when I never perform any of the common dreamsign actions?

Problem #2 : My dreams are all in the third person. It's just like I'm watching it all happen from a corner or something, I'm not actually me in them. It would seem to be impossible to become lucid in a dream when you're not even anything. Is there anything I can do to have dreams in the first person? I think I've only had one dream like this, I went to school like on a normal day, everything felt real, and then I looked down and saw that I was naked. I got real embarassed and then I woke up. This dream was about 3 years ago, and I don't think I've had one like it since.

Thanks to anyone that can help.