Welcome, Vetani! Great to have you here.

Make sure to check out http://www.dreamviews.com/introducti...-dreaming.html which contains the basic info about lucid dreaming, as well as some links to tutorials. After that, if you have some more questions, feel free to post around the forum or PM any of us

I suck at dream interpretation so I don't think I can help out with the dream you posted in the other part. x) But good luck!